For some reason, many people lately have been questioning me on this. Exactly why am I an atheist? Why dont I believe in god? Let me explain.
I'm going to do this as a critique and as if it were posted in SYW (if I understand AW correctly, this particular forum is supposed to be about atheistic WRITING), even though I'm sympathetic to your viewpoint. Perhaps as "devil's advocate" I can make your argument stronger.
1. I do not believe in god mainly because almost all religon requires that you "surrender" to god. I will not surrender my individualism and my freedome to a figure which, in my eyes, does not exist.
This is circular. If God doesn't exist, you don't have to surrender to Him.
And even if He did, it appears you'd be bullheaded, and if God showed up on the White House Lawn, was shown on national television (or even CNN) and started telling President Bush what to do (supressing speculations about what Bush might actually believe and saving them for another forum, perhaps TIO...), you would STILL be stubborn and refuse to surrender to Him. It doesn't logically follow that you are an atheist because of your resistance to surrendering.
And as others have said or implied, this concept is far from universal among all religions. The "surrendering to God" idea is certainly central to Christianity and Islam, but not neccesarily to other major religions.
2. The concept of god is crazy to me. The universe was not created in seven days, its just a fairy tale. I personally believe that religon was created at a time when humanity was on the brink of chaos, and so the people needed something to guide them in the right direction, i.e. religon. We are much more mature now, and religon just causes problems . (wars and whatnot)
Again, this is Christianity-specific, and even many Christians don't believe that the universe or the Earth was created in seven days.
Also, the concept of quantum physics is crazy to me, but that doesn't mean I have no belief in it. You're saying why you ought not to believe, NOT why you don't believe.
4. Absolute faith has rules, therefore it takes away personal choice in freedom. To me, god is just a pair of handcuffs.
Well, life has rules. If you don't eat, you starve to death.
I can "see" your point here, you "don't like rules" but the point is very weak. You're not specific enough about what rules bother you, why you don't think you should follow them, but most especially, how does this inform you about the existence or nonexistence of God?
Much of your argument appears to be "I don't want to believe in God, because I don't want to do what Christianity tells me I would have to do if God existed." You seem to be saying why you WANT TO BE an atheist, not why you ARE an atheist.
5. Faith in such an absolute being, in a being who wields absolute power over the entire universe, seems dangerous to me.
Now this is an interesting point, and you use the word absolute here - it brings to mind my research on cults (which aren't always religious - there are what I call "business cults" which are usually multilevel marketing organizations/schemes, but there's also Scientology which claims to be a religion, but many say it's not). Cults often have "absolute" demands on its menbers, such as some form of "purity."
But back closer to the subject of your post, I can see where a (Christian) believer could just as easily argue that it's quite dangerous to NOT have faith in such a Being, as a nonbeliever would be eternally tormented in Hell.
6. Religon is built on fear. Why should you do what god says? So you dont go to hell, of course. If religon did not acknowledge that there was a hell, there would be a lot more atheists out there.
You've sort-of got a point here, but that argument still falls short of explaining why many people believe in God. I've read of religion-related polls over the years, and in the USA perhaps 95 percent say they believe in God and/or Heaven, but a substantially lower percentage believe in Hell. So it's not exclusively the fear of Hell that motivates people to believe in God.
But even without Hell, fear can be a motivating part of religion (or at least Christianity). I've often heard the words, at a funeral about the deceased, or just in general about a living person, "he/she's a good, God-fearing person" (or even without the word good, implying that fearing God equates to being good). So it's not just Hell itself some people fear. I recall the origin of the names of both the Shaker and the Quaker sects to be a Bible verse that goes something like "tremble and quake in the presence of The Lord").
Why do I believe in a god after being an atheist my entire life?
Because it felt too arrogant not to.
Arrogance and humility are interesing points in relation to belief. I've sometimes heard from believers that atheists are arrogant, yet I've heard believers claim to be HUMBLE while at the same time claiming a conscious contact, or a "personal relationship," with "The Creater."
Morality is something that is learned both through your parents and through experience. I know that if religion never existed, we would still be obligated to behave on the same morale basis as we do today. I believe that while morales are essential to religion, religion is not essential to morales.
I hate when people claim me to be immorale because I dont have a faith. As an atheist, I can say that we are not trusted by general society. Even though I do show some decency, lots of people cant see past my beliefs...
You make an excellent point here - I think people on all sides of the issue agree that atheists are widely distrusted by the majority (which for the most part means believers). I generally keep a low profile as an atheist in my personal life, partly for this very reason, but also, it's not really anyone else's business what or whether I believe.
And yet there are many religious people (self-proclaimeed, or even highly respected by many others) who do very immorral things. What is one to believe about them? Is it just that they "sin" and "give into temptation" because they are human (or because they inherit "original sin" from Adam and Eve)? Or might they be faking their belief? Could they be "one of us" yet "passing"?
But many people find religious belief to be a solid indicator of moral character (see my most recent post in the "job interview question" thread). If another claims to be Christian, this is deemed good, and the idea that one might be lying may not often come to mind (though some input from Christians here might be enligntening). But if one admits to being a non-believer, this is considered bad, and one is judged to have bad or NO morals based solely on the label, and is judged worse than a self-proclaimed believer who has repeatedly "fallen." It's interesting that people can be given more credit for their words than their actions.
Now you've got me envisioning an article for some popular magazine that might occasionally print an article by some marginalized or radical person. I can see the titles now:
A Transgendered Person Speaks
A Terrorist Speaks
A Drug Addict Speaks
An Atheist Speaks