And 2. is likability really that important? Especially when creating characters for a fictional work?
Personally I am far more interested in complex characters than likeable ones (not that likeable ones can't be complex), and I am always surprised when people don't understand why I can enjoy a character who isn't likeable.
Well, there have been a few threads on AW about this sort of thing, and in general, it appears the majority here agree with you. I am not sure if this is generally true of readers?
I prefer likeable characters. Now, IRL I like most people, and I think my threshold for considering a character likeable is pretty damn low. The reason I prefer likeable characters is that I just cannot care about a character if I don't like them, so I feel I have no reason to finish the book.
When people start listing off successful books with unlikeable MC's, it is usually a list of books I hated, couldn't finish, or have decided to never read. Whether or not they're classics. There is no changing my mind. This is the main reason I didn't like
The Corrections, and this is the reason my dad gives for not liking
Lolita. My boyfriend, on the other hand, couldn't care less about likeability, and enjoyed both of these books.
Anyways, I've pretty much come to the conclusion that either you want likeable characters, or you don't care, but you can't really convince someone to change their preference here. Likeable characters are definitely important to a not-insignificant segment of readers.
I have not thought about this issue much as it might relate to gender of the author or characters, but I have thought about it in terms of genre. Mainly, genre romance with unlikeable leads sounds pretty damn hard to pull off.
But I'm not sure characters have to be likeable. Have any of you read SEATING ARRANGEMENTS? There are several main characters and think for the most part they are all relatively unlikable, especially the older male character. But I devoured it and highly enjoyed it. They weren't delicious villains which always have an appeal, they were deeply flawed and selfish people. I don't say I always want to read such books but I like a variety.
Yup, I read this book. And...hmmm. There were parts I liked, but I could never love a book like this because of the unlikeable characters. Especially the MC. Some of the other characters were bearable. I could tolerate it a little better in this novel than in some others because it was a pretty funny book. The overall rating on Goodreads is actually rather low for this book, and the negative reviews generally mention the unlikeable characters. So clearly it was an issue for a lot of readers, though there were definitely people, like you, who loved it. And I can see how someone could love this book...but some things really didn't work for me at all.
On my e-reader, I have "good," "very good," and "favorites" collections. There is zero chance of a book getting into the last two collections if I found the MC unlikeable.