Although it may sound funny, I have a serious question concerning web presence and networking that I know affects at least some writers:
What if you don't like people all that much, in general? What if you're anti-social and seriously, whole-heartedly just do not give a flying fig newton about someone's drama?
Also, has anyone seen my medicine?
Ha! That could be me.
No, seriously. I just don't like people that much, even though I write about them in my books. (Duh.) I have to people-watch and make myself a student of the human condition...but I'm possessive of my time and territory and there are very few people I actually enjoy mixing with. Even then, they're better in small doses.
There's nothing wrong with being an introvert. Company energises extroverts and drains introverts. I'm one of the latter.
However, as the previous poster perfectly illustrates, once you stop caring so much about what people think of you, that frees you up to say, "Oh sod it, I'll tweet what I like," and people actually warm to that. They sense how genuine you're being.
So while few people set out to be deliberately malicious, there's nothing wrong with just saying whatever the hell you want from time to time.
I'm grumpy as hell quite a lot, and when I express this in real life, other people fall about laughing at my deadpan sense of humour. I expect this happens a lot on Twitter as well. I say something grumpy, it makes someone out there laugh. And that's cool. It shows we're both human.
Now when the grumpy gets too much to handle, I stay away from Twitter and my blog. When it's a real depression, I keep that private. I seek advice from friends, and medical help from my G.P.
Some things don't belong online. At least, that's how I reason on it.