Don't respond if you don't feel comfortable responding.
But, speaking as someone who has been stalked, it's not our business or our right to know anything anyone else isn't comfortable telling us--and anyone else who Googles.
That's why there are privacy settings.
That's why, even though my posts are tied to my actual name and identity, we don't require that of anyone.
Most members do not connect their online identity with their legal name.
Keep in mind that with over 20K members, roughly half of whom are genuinely active in terms of logging in regularly, we have minors, people in prison and other sorts of institutions, people with dangerous violent stalkers, and people who are far too well known to be comfortable enough to relax and be themselves.
in and of itself, any way, and in some cases, I'm fairly sure, with 20K of members, it is emphatically not true.
It's all just pixels.