First, raw-neck, I'm sorry I didn't welcome you in my other post; I forgot because I was responding to another's post.
So, welcome to Absolute Write!
Ah great...
Firstly, are there any specific rules pertaining to the language/ grammar that i should be using while posting in a forum?
No, there are no specific rules pertaining to grammar/language here. I think your English is quite good, by the way.

(As I mentioned in my previous post, I have made the same mistake with goggle vs. google.)
I used to think forum is a place where you can ask for friendly advices or get your queries answered. Sorry to say, but i am starkly dejected to find that such a reputed forum has people who are more interested in judging what someone has written rather than providing the requisite help...
I'm very sorry that you encountered judgment on your first post and inquiry here. For the most part we really are a friendly forum. I've been here since 2005, and I love it almost like family. I'm a moderator here, and I tried to come in to this thread and defend your writing, while asking everyone to stay on your original topic.
I'm sorry you've had an initial negative experience here, but I would encourage you to stick around and give us a chance. This really is a great forum. You may want to check out our
Newbie Welcome Guide, which features more information about our forum.
Our only major rule is to
respect your fellow writer, which is what I'm asking of you and the others in this thread. Just respect each other, and avoid the condescending remarks.
@willosidhe - Thanks a lot for your advise... i found your blog genuinely helpful..
@herdon and inkcognito - thanks a lot guys
As for other... i don't need to prove anything to a bunch of judgmental people.
Just to clarify, I'm a moderator here and I was defending your post, while also trying to maintain some order and let the others know that we need to keep this thread on track.
I'm not asking for thanks like you gave to Willow, Herdon, and Inkognito, but I also do not wish to be lumped into your "judgmental people" title. I wasn't judging you at all. I was asking the others, who mentioned your spelling, to ease up a bit.
I hope you'll read my post again and understand that I was trying to help you.

I hope you'll feel welcome to participate here.