It was good to have at least "some" backup that not all papers are able tp be written without a long-term notice.
I also feel people are being more than a little rough on me as well. I don't make my living doing this as my conscience has a hard time with it. I earned my degree the hard way, through my own blood, sweat and tears AND I worked full-time AND I was raising kids AND it was before computers were readily available. I can remember begging the monitors of my scholarship for a typewriter so I didn't have to be at the computer lab at school in the middle of the night (which was dangerous in Philly).
Also, everyone is not "us". Not everyone can look at a blank page and start writing. Even I have problems with it sometimes, working into that first paragraph. However, when that happens to me, I don't panic because I know I'll get there. People who don't do a great deal of writing don't "know" they will and panic sets in.
When I was in college, I took pretty much nothing but English classes in my last two years as this was my major. I took grammar classes, I took writing classes, I took a class one semester that had a paper a week due. THIS didn't faze me one bit because I can write and I'm not intimidated by writing. But not everyone has that gift, and it IS a gift, whether you guys realize you have it or not. Put me in a biology class, though, and I break out into a flop sweat because THAT I don't get. Same with Math, which I also hate but now know enough to help my kids when they needed/need it. I envy people who can do those two subjects and GET it.
Again, I don't make my living at writing other people's term papers nor do I ever intend to do so. It IS dishonest and I've turned in my own son for doing it as it's cheating. He thought I was going to have to pay him for the $75 he paid for the paper and I laughed in his faceand told him to take me to small claims to get it back.
Instead of villifying me, how about being my friend and loving me in spite of my lapse in judgment by taking pity on someone who is now walking the shoes I once walked? I've never known any of you to be judgmental...