Just wanted to chime in and say how much this thread warms my heart. I read the first post when there were no responses yet, and since I'm not the animal expert in my family, I made a mental note to ask my mom (30 years in vet tech and 50ish in pet ownership, including rescue and...er...
challenging animals) and to come back with whatever she'd suggested.
But by the time I got back here things were already looking up, and every time I check back in, my heart gets a little more melty and I just grin wider. (I partly blame the pics for that

)
From that very first post I had a gut feeling that the right dog and the right family had been brought together at the right time. Which I know I probably have no right to say since I don't really know you and haven't really talked to you. But it persisted, and I'm just thrilled with how things are going, for every single one of you. You're all benefiting from each other. *bursts*
Thank you so much for sharing!