I don't deny the "you just wouldn't understand" argument. In this case, it's true, but it seems you take this as insulting? Why? What is wrong with not understanding something, if you have not spent time studying it? I freely admit that I know little about physics beyond what I learned in high school, and if, in discussing physics, a physicist told me "you just don't understand" I would not feel insulted. It would probably be the truth. Equality in any subject is not a given. Why the pretence? Why the offence?
Because you're assuming I've read little or nothing in "this area" you're discussing.
If you want to understand a subject, you must spend some time, a lot of time, studying it. How much time have you given to understanding Advaita? How many books on the subject have you read? How many teachers of it can you name, right off the bat?
As far as connecting spiritual or mystical things to quantum mechanics, the first popular book was "The Dancing Wu Li Masters" by Gary Zukav. I tried to read it and only managed to page through it. I did manage to read Martin Gardner's review of the book in his "Science: Good, Bad, Bogus."
I read a Paul Davies book many years ago, one of apparently several he wrote tying scientific findings to God (Davies also won the Templeton Prize), but I didn't agree with much of it, nor did I get anything out of it. This was even during a time in my life where I was "open to spiritual things."
How many hours have you spent in advaitic meditation? Your misconceptions of what it entails (equating it with telekinese, for example) lead me to believe that your answers to all these questions is "not much", or even, "nothing".
You dismiss telekinesis and other psychic powers, but I (or perhaps more appropriately, someone who sees these things as part of reality) may ask how much you've read in that area, and how much you've tried to practice those things.
Here, as in every other area of life, it's "show me your credentials". Guesswork and preconceptions are not enough. If I made a totally stupid assumption on physics (or American politics, or sport, or any area in which I have no or little experience) I would expect to be called on it; to be told "you just don't understand". Why not here? Why do you find it mean-spirited or belittling?*
Saying "you just don't understand" implies a deep "understanding" that someone else cannot have without some "conversion," some change, not just in knowledge, but belief.
"Totally stupid assumptions" are usually quite easy to clear up and explain with a paragraph or so.
You wrote of this thing as "a place where science and spirituality meet" - that's something I did read extensively on during my years in AA, as I felt if God were responsible for my "so-ber-i-e-ty" (as it is often pronounced in "The Program"), and God were all powerful and all these other things, then what else could God do? The harder I looked, the less I found of God or anything truly spiritual, and the more I found of belief. God, spirituality, metaphysics, whatever, these all exist in the minds of those who believe in them, and nowhere else that I've seen.
Do you feel that people who have given decades of their life on spiritual study/meditation, and have perhaps made some progress, might not know "a little" more than you on the subject? Do they have nothing of importance to say? Are their conclusions not worthy of respect? Do 5000 years of collective wisdom mean nothing?
I kind of feel that the answer to all those questions is "NO".
You're correct, the answer is no. I feel the same about astrology, palm reading, and many other things that people have been studying for thousands of years, and I haven't read a lot about those things. I was "curious" for a few years and read interesting things on many sides, but again found nothing outside of people "wanting to believe" that justified the belief.
One mundane (as in non-spiritual) belief that turned out false is "Facilitated Communication" - my first knowledge of it came through a PBS Frontline episode on it. FC supposedly allows uncommunicative victims of autism and Down's syndrome to communicate through a "facilitator" who would take the person's arm and "help" point to letters on a letterboard, thus spelling out words and sentences. Parents were of course very happy to see their children being able to say anything in any way, but in every test done it was clear that the facilitator was the only one communicating.
In fact, I suspect that your basic underlying attitude, and initial, spontaneous response, to all I've said here is an unequivocal "Bullshit". How scientific is that?
That's an excellent question. Am I unscientific because I don't investigate every single claim I read on a message board? Do I have
contempt prior to investigation?
The basic difference between me and you isn't the knowledge you, or whoever authors you read, have of these things, it's that you and they have BELIEF that these things are true, that there's some spiritual or mystical aspect of or connection to quantum mechanics. I do not believe this, and no amount of studying/reading about it is going to convince me.
Okay, I'll hedge. If I "study" this enough I may have "experiences" as you have had from your meditation, and if I'm awash in this enough I'll believe as you believe. But I already had a few years believing in the existence of spiritual/nonphysical things, and I'm not interested in going back.
It doesn't bother me; it's to be expected and I'm used to it, and I have no intention of arguing my case -- argument leads nowhere. But that "bullshit" response says more about you than about the subject itself!
* or maybe you were saying I might interpret your accusation ("you just wouldn't understand") as mean-spirited or belittling? No, I don't! It's perfectly true!
It's quite simple. I don't "understand" because I don't believe.
As one famous guru asked in the 1970's, "What is your conceptual continuity?"