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What is the scariest first hand experience you have ever had? It can be anything. Like time your psychotic soon to be ex-boyfriend drove really fast in his car (with you in it), kept kissing his gun and professing his undying love for you. Or the time your grandmother made you wear a PINK taffeta dress to a school dance. or whatever.
 
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Well, I've had a few. My second husband, the batterer, once told me he was "going to chop me up, put me in a suitcase, and leave me on the side of the road where I belonged." That was pretty scary, but I shot him a right to the jaw and got out. I've heard a disembodied voice call my name. It was so real that I actually turned around and walked a mile in the opposite direction I'd been going just to find out who the heck was playing a trick on me. Nothing. There was no one there. I was robbed at knife-point when I was around thirty. I was working in a convenience store. The whole thing seemed so ludicrist that I just started laughing. So did the bandit. He left. It seems that laughter is the best medicine.
 

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I think the scariest thing I've ever experienced is having my mom call to tell me my dad had a heart attack. (Fortunately, he was okay.)

Second to that, probably being run off the road by a big-rig and rolling my truck into the center divide. I didn't sleep for a full 24 hours, my adrenaline was so high.
 

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What is the scariest first hand experience you have ever had? It can be anything. Like time your psychotic soon to be ex-boyfriend drove really fast in his car (with you in it), kept kissing his gun and professing his undying love for you. Or the time your grandmother made you wear a PINK taffeta dress to a school dance. or whatever.
I've had a few, so the first of many is difficult to describe. I can say that there was this one time when I lived in Houston in 1976 that I encountered someone (I believe) who later became infamous.

I was walking down a lonely stretch of road that follows the path to the Astrodome when a car pulled up next to me. I had just completed my Marine boot camp training and was assigned to duty in Texas.

The driver asked if I'd like a ride "Where you going?"

I leaned a little into the passenger window "Get a beer."

"You need a ride?"

"No, I'm okay. Thanks."

"Are you sure?"

"Yeah, it's just up the block. I can walk."

He drove off, but I remembered his face and the way he tried to coach me into the car. I've seen his kind before. I wasn't going to get into his car and I think that I made a good decision at the time because he was a bad man after all.


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There are different kinds of scary.

Scary #1: I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, which had made my mom's life a living hell for many years. (I'm in remission now thanks to early diagnosis YAY)

Scary #2: I was alone in the house when I was a teenager, and some people started pounding on my front door and yelling like they were going to break in and kill me. Um, it turned out to be two friends of my sister at the door. They thought it would be "funny" to scare the crap out of me. It sounds very silly now, but I was horror movie scared at the time. :D
 

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My boyfriend and I were on vacation. We had forgotten something in the car, so we went downstairs to get it. This was around 10 at night.

As we were heading back inside, I was walking, not looking where I was going. I was too busy looking back at him and talking. Then, all of a sudden, he yelled, "Stop!" And I have never seen this man look so scared since I've known him, so I was afraid to see what was in front of me. My foot was literally in midair.

It seemed like forever before I turned to see what was in front of me. When I saw what it was I jumped back a few feet! :eek:

It was a very huge, long, black, water moccasin, who was finished with his "dip" in the hotel pool, and who was heading back into the woods across the parking lot. I hate snakes. I nearly fainted, but was too afraid that it would come back.

What was really strange was that my boyfriend and I were just talking about snakes before we went downstairs, and how he'd leave me to run away from one---but he didn't leave. He knew that he'd have to deal with me later...:D
 

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My second husband, the batterer, once told me he was "going to chop me up, put me in a suitcase, and leave me on the side of the road where I belonged."

I can relate to that! I had a boyfriend once who decided I was bad because "I didn't love him", and beat the crap out of me. We were in MY house.

When he was done, he went to bed - IN MY BED!

He came out to the living room about an hour later to find me sitting on the chair with a baseball bat. He asked what I was doing.

I said "Waiting for you to go to sleep."

He got dressed and left fast.

I saw him once after that. From a distance. He told everyone that I was a psycho bitch.

Funny part of the story ..... six month later, HIS best friend called me. We've been married almost 20 years. (nope - they aren't friends anymore)

The actual experience was scary. This was the third time he had gone wacko on me. The first one was when I tried to break it off. (He just wasn't that fun to be around). He gave me a black eye. I called the cops and he went to jail for the night. This was many, many years ago and the protection they have now for battered women just didn't exist. I was on my own.

The second time involved a gun, but he never actually pointed it at me. He just brought it out and started playing with it. Again, this was just after I told him that I wasn't ready to settle down. I didn't bother to call the cops.

It was about a week after the gun incident when the third - and final attack came. I wasn't expecting him. He just walked in. He'd been drinking. I knew that I was in trouble, but didn't have a clear path to the door. He stayed between me and the door the whole time.

I asked him to leave. That's when he rushed me and hit me the first time. He didn't stop. He hit. He kicked. He sat on me until I couldn't breathe. Then he got up, went to the fridge and got a beer.

I crawled into a chair and just tried to figure out how I could make him leave me alone. I hurt all over. My lip was bleeding and I knew I had two black eyes.

As I sat in the chair, I tried to decide how to get this to stop forever. Yes, I did think about killing him. I actually felt sorry for him. He was the most unhappy person I've ever met. But, I I knew that I had to get him out of my life or I would die.

When he went to bed, I could have left. But then what? Wait for the next time? I decided that it was going to end this night. Either I would die or he would leave.

When he came out and asked what I was doing, I didn't have any words ready. The ones that I said just popped out of my mouth. They surprised me as much as they surprised him because I am not an aggressive person.

When he slammed out the door, I sat in that chair and cried for hours. A combination of relief that he was gone and fear that he would return.

I slept on the couch with a baseball bat for several weeks.

Am I sorry that happened to me? Nope. It helped make me who I am.

There are many lessons in that one experience:

1) When I am scared, I get strong.
2) I suck when it comes to determining someone's character
3) Women who are battered are NOT losers
4) Black eyes can't be completely covered with makeup
5) Never let a crazy person get between you and your escape route
 
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My first husband gave me enough experiences that I should have been scared but I was too angry to have the good sense to be frightened. The one experience that sticks out to me was with my daughter when she was around 4. I'd left hubby dear and moved into this duplex with the kid. She was riding her tricycle in front of the apt. and I had the front door open to watch her. I went into the bedroom to get something and heard a car running outside. I saw this creepy looking man walking towards the apt. and I hurried back to the front to call my daughter. When I stepped outside to grab her he was like 20 feet away and saw me and ran back to his car and drove off. A week later I heard a report about this man who tried to abduct a little girl. It left me with shivers knowing that it probably could have been my kid. Scared the poop out of me.
 

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He came out to the livingroom about an hour later to find me sitting on the chair with a baseball bat. He asked what I was doing.

I said "Waiting for you to go to sleep."

He got dressed and left fast.

Fucking awesome.
 

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Thanks.

I think that was the single moment in my life that showed me who I can be. I'm not agressive. I would rather everyone get along. I will run from a fight. -- and I have been called mousy. (more than once).

I think everyone has something inside them. But not everyone has to use it in their life.
 

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She was riding her tricycle in front of the apt. and I had the front door open to watch her. I went into the bedroom to get something and heard a car running outside. I saw this creepy looking man walking towards the apt. and I hurried back to the front to call my daughter. When I stepped outside to grab her he was like 20 feet away and saw me and ran back to his car and drove off. A week later I heard a report about this man who tried to abduct a little girl. It left me with shivers knowing that it probably could have been my kid. Scared the poop out of me.

Now that is scary!
 

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So many to pick from:

A tractor trailer drove OVER my geo metro with me inside it.

I was (accidentally) shot in the face with a nailgun.

I have had an allergic reaction that I nearly died from.

I've had to live with knowing that my daughter got on a plane over 7 yrs ago and I've not heard or seen her since.

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Several years back my OH caught fire when a gas container blew up that he'd knocked over. We'd taken down a tree in the yard, so the gas was mixed with oil for the chain saw. He toppled it while dragging a few last branches that we had missed. The fumes traveled down a slight incline to a small fire still smoldering from the night before and back to the can. A little blue flame zipped between his legs just as he reached for the container. Luckily, he had the sense to stand and saved his head, but his arms burned like candles. He rolled in the dirt, but they kept reigniting until his shirt caught and he had to rip that off.

This all happened in a matter of moments, me inside, trying to get back on my feet which weren't working to go see. Our dog racing out, then coming back to jump up and down to let me know it was bad. If I wasn't already scared, that did it. I'm sure if the house burned it wouldn't matter. It's only their family. I hobbled faster. By then, his arms had gone out and he was walking toward me like a Frankenstein mummy, with what appeared to be dirty rags hanging from his arms to the ground. It was charred skin.

The scariest part was loading him into the car and trying to remain calm and keep him talking so he wouldn't go into shock as we raced to the ER. Thankfully, he was hanging on in the same way for my sake.
 

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I was a district mgr for a small 8 store fast food chain here in Dallas. One night, (the night before Thanksgiving) the store manager calls me at home, says she's sick, needs to go home. I told her to go home, and that I'd come over and lock up. This was back in 83.

I get there, send home all employees except a cook and myself. I tell him to start shutting down, while I watch the front.

I pull the cash from the register, put it in my pocket. (owner's rules) After I lock all doors I'd pull that cash and make out the deposit and walk across the street and drop it into the night deposit. We never left money in the floor safe because it was extremely difficult to get opened. In fact, it was about to be replaced witha new one.

The owner always kept a 9mm handgun, in a drawer behind the counter where we kept the rolled change, pennies, nickles dimes, quarters, etc in one of those plastic zippered bank bags.
The gun was always cocked and loaded and chambered, and ready to go.

While the cook is putting stuff up, I finished paperwork while standing at the front counter looking out through the dining room and out to the parking lot.
It is about 9:45 pm.
I look up, and see a black kid walking through the lot, glancing inside towards me.
The third time he walks by, I think 'I bet he's gonna walk in here, ask for change for a dollar, and then pull out a gun and rob me.'

Which is, of course, exactly what he did.

Walks with up to the counter, throws a dollar bill down, says 'gimme four quarters'
I open the register (which I know, to the penny, exactly how much is in there) and I am reaching for the four quarters, he pulls out a little snub-nosed 38 and sticks it right in my face. And I mean IN my face. I remember that I could actually SMELL the oil on the gun barrell.
He says, while you got that open, gimme all of it. So, I reach back, and open the drawer where we keep the bags of rolled coins, and pulled one out. It was rolls and rolls of quarters, and then I scooped out the $56 in the register and gave it to him. Then I closed the register, and stepped away from it, down the counter a little bit.
He turns to leave, then thinks better of it, turns back around, pulls the gun out, and sticks it across the counter, right at my heart. Says he wants MORE. NOW.
NOw, what's weird about all this, is that I wasn't the least bit scared. Not one iota. It was SO bizarre, because there I am with a gun in my face, and then aimed at my heart, and I'm standing there thinking, 'Shouldn't I be scared?'

Instead, HE was scared. I know because that gun was shaking SO badly, that I actually thought that it might go off by accident. So, I reached up, and using my fingertip, I pushed the end of the gun towards my left so that it wouldn't go off by accident and hurt me, and I tell him, go ahead and put that away, now, and I'll give you more.

He puts his hand with the gun back into his winbreaker jacket, and that's when I realized that, hey, my gun is bigger than his! All I have to do is reach back and open that drawer, pull it out and start squeezing off rounds. I know it's always cocked and loaded with safety off. I knew that. I'd seen it a hundred times.
So, why not? I tell him I'll give him the rest of it, and I reach for the drawer, all the while keeping my eyes on his face.

I open the drawer. reach in for the gun. The gun is gone. Dammit. (the owner had taken it out about a week earlier, and I didn't know it)

So, I pulled out another plastic bank bag filled with rolled quarters, dimes, nickels, and held it up to him. He had the gun back out, pointed at my head again, and the other hand was still in his windbreaker pocket. I held the bag out to him, and he puts his gun hand and gun, back into his pocket, brings the other hand out for the bag of money.
I walk around the counter, walk up to him and come up to his side (the gun side) put my hand on his elbow and my other hand on his back, and start waslking him towads a side door. This side door has a knob, I knew he'd have to turn it to get out, thus getting some fingerprints on it, and he does. He takes one step out, and I turn and start towards the phone to call the police, but as I walk back up the hallway, I realize he's turned around and is following me, with the gun in my back.
The cook comes out from the back, and he sees what is going on, and I just shake my head at him to be quiet.
Robber-boy tells me, 'We're gonna go in the back, and I want the two of you to lay face down.
I immediately stop walking, turn to him and say, No, you've got everything, you're leaving now. And I take him by the arm and march him to the door, make him turn the knob to open it. He steps outside, turns to me with the gun (his hand still shaking crazily scared) and he says, I know you got a safe in there.
I tell him, You need to get lost. I shove him backwards a foot or so, and he turns and sarts walking across the parking lot.
I shut the door without touching the knob. I call the police, and they were there within 30 seconds, maybe even 20.
I told the dispatcher to tell them to come in the front door not the side because I had somefingerprints for them.
First thing they did, they came in, start questioning me, and I look over and see a cop reach down for the doorknob on that side door, and I yell at them not to touch it. Too late, they ruined the fingerprints!

Earlier that night, a few miles away, a man walked into a nightclub and shot and killed 6 people.

At any rate. I guess the gist of my story is, try to be calm if something like that ever happens. I don't know how, or why I was. It surprised me. But for some reason, with me, when things get more intense, I get calmer and more even and, I don't know, it's not my 'real' self, smething just takes over and I do whatever i'm directed to do. Must be my 'protective' self or something.
 

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lakotagirl! Bravo. You should use that in a book. I'm sorry you had to endure a beating. Been there. Done that. Not fun. BUT the way you handled that situation was priceless. Again, Bravo!
 

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There are many lessons in that one experience:

1) When I am scared, I get strong.

We never know what we are made of until we are tested.

2) I suck when it comes to determining someone's character

some people are expert liars--they know they suck--and instead of changing they spend all there time covering up.

Women who are battered are NOT losers

but people who are bigger and stronger who have to beat on someone smaller are losers:)

4) Black eyes can't be completely covered with makeup

black eyes don't feel as bad--when you can say-- you should see the other guy(and if that means using a heavy object so be it:))


5) Never let a crazy person get between you and your escape route

With enough duct tape, you can lead a horse to water and make him drink.

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words to live by there:)
 
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I was a district mgr for a small 8 store fast food chain here in Dallas. One night, (the night before Thanksgiving) the store manager calls me at home, says she's sick, needs to go home. I told her to go home, and that I'd come over and lock up. This was back in 83.

The gun was always cocked and loaded and chambered, and ready to go.

While the cook is putting stuff up, I finished paperwork while standing at the front counter looking out through the dining room and out to the parking lot.
It is about 9:45 pm.
I look up, and see a black kid walking through the lot, glancing inside towards me.
The third time he walks by, I think 'I bet he's gonna walk in here, ask for change for a dollar, and then pull out a gun and rob me.'

Which is, of course, exactly what he did.


I've had this nightmare several times. It never ends like you handled it. In fact, I don't think it ever ends....

This just shows how well you handle pressure. Good job!! Awesome!!!
 

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I've had this nightmare several times. It never ends like you handled it. In fact, I don't think it ever ends....

This just shows how well you handle pressure. Good job!! Awesome!!!


yeah, lucky me. It's the piddling little-stuff pressure that I can't hack. Just last Thursday I went to the doc for anxiety pills. So, how weird is that? LOL
 

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Being on a jet liner that presumably didn't have the running gear down.

Also, I've been thrown off a few horses, and no doubt will continue to be thrown off horses now and then ... but that typically happens fast, so there is little anxiety.
 

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Last June I wound up in a detox unit with an accellerated heartrate and a low body temperature. I had been taking 3-5 milligrams of Ativan daily for two years, I had been a serious drinker for years but it seemed since I started the Ativan my alcohol consumption just kept multiplying. There were a number of factors in my life contributing to both addictions, bad job, failed relationship, yada yada ya. Around January of last year I started in on prescription sleeping pills as well. So when June rolled around, I didn't consciously try to kill myself, but I came very close to doing just that. I thought nothing of drinking steadily from the time I got off work Friday evening until about ten o'clock on Sunday evening. One Sunday night my body finally started shutting down. I actually kept stuffing pills in my mouth and swallowing vodka. I got to the point where I couldn't eat, I couldn't puke, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't pass out. I had dry heaves, convuslions, my lips had gone white. I sat for hours in an emergency room shivering under a blanket. This is good: I remember this guy came in who had lost three fingers to a lawn mower. He was shirtless and barefoot and running around the emergency room like a crazy man. His hand was wrapped in heavy gauze, like a cacoon, with quite a bit of blood seeping through it. The hospital was going to need to find a hand surgeon who would come in and sew the fingers back on. One of the lawncutter's kids had picked up the fingers. The entire family was there, wife, sister in law and mom (lots of comparative genetics there!). And the dude is running around telling people the surgeon better hurry before the morphine shot they gave him wore off.

So thats my scary near death experience. The happy ending is that I managed to get myself in a taxi, spent three days in detox, six weeks in an outpatient treatment program, and several months trying to find my Higher Power in AA meetings, and have now been sober 10 months and three weeks. Later I would read that Heath Ledger died from a lethal combination of Ativan, Ambien, and Alcohol.
 

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The single scariest experience I have ever had was one day, when I went outside to have a cigarette, I could hear some sort of thin squealing sound. I wandered down the deck stairs at one end, and around to the stairs at the other, whence it seemed to be coming.

There, where the squealing had stopped, I saw two chipmunks. One had it's face buried in the other's belly, and as I approached, it looked up at me.

Its face was covered in blood. It was eating the other chipmunk's entrails, and the other chipmunk was still twitching. The squealing had been the dying chipmunk screaming with all its might at being eaten alive.

I had trouble sleeping for a week.
 

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Its face was covered in blood. It was eating the other chipmunk's entrails, and the other chipmunk was still twitching. The squealing had been the dying chipmunk screaming with all its might at being eaten alive.

I had trouble sleeping for a week.

Damp! That is scary!
 
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