Nothin' like being a new guy

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Okay, I'm not published but I am working on my second book, number two in a series of three. I have been writing for well over thirty years, I just never showed my stuff to anyone else until recently. As I prepare my submission package as it were, I find myself shrinking. It has been a long time since I felt this apprehensive about anything, excluding the normal concerns that are part and parcel with parenthood of course. I remember the day that I heard a bullet buzz past my ear, subsequently I had to change my shorts. This feels a little bit like that.
No spell check? I can't do this, how can I possibly expose myself like this? In no way do I consider myself a real writer, I never went to college, I never finished high school, opting for the G.E.D. so that I could work full time and buy the old shovelhead that I loved so much. I do know this, I know that the path I chose all those years ago was not the path I was meant to take. I know that when I write, when the words fly through the conduit from my imagination to my fingertips ending up on the paper I feel good. So here I am at this website, no one is real here either and who do you trust?
I have a lot of work to do, and I am hoping to educate myself as to this publishing business. It is my hope that many of the answers I need can be found here at Absolute Writer. I appreciate what Jenna Glatzer is doing, I guess that we, as those who love to read and write do share a common bond. Thank you for this opportunity, this anonymous opportunity that allows me to explore all of this without having to let anyone see me while I do it. That would be scary.
 

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Welcome

Welcome, Handicop!

Many of us have felt both the exhilaration and anxiety associated with being a writer... you are not alone.

So here I am at this website, no one is real here either and who do you trust?

I think you'll find lots and lots of real people here at AW: published writers, editors, and even an agent weighing in on the discussion. There are several posters whose opinions I trust implicitly. You'll figure who you trust soon enough.


Thank you for this opportunity, this anonymous opportunity that allows me to explore all of this without having to let anyone see me while I do it.

That's your choice, of course, but don't you write to be read? If that's the case, consider posting some some stuff at SYW forum. I think you'll find very constructive criticism available there. I think one of the best ways to improve your writing is to show it to other writers who can help point out your strengths and what might help strengthen your writing.

Welcome, learn, enjoy! Good luck!
 

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I couldn't have put it better, Jana.

Welcome, Handicop. You'll find lots of friendly support and encouragement around here. You can remain as anonymous as you like, but don't be surprised if you start to make some real friends in the coming months.
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Thank you.

Thank you both, a warm and friendly welcome to be sure. I would like to clarify something however, by anonymous I simply meant from where I sit. I will definately post something for others to read and hopefully critique, now what to post? I have to go and smoke several cigarettes while I fret over this decision, nothing like a good and healthy lack of self confidence to make the day interesting. This is going to be fun!
Please understand that I'm not complaining, I just have a sarcastic New Jersey sense of humor. It has gotten me into trouble in the past, you think I would have learned by now. Thanks again for the welcome and the advice, it is greatly appreciated. So now it is time to stand in the door!
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Hiya HandiCop--don't worry about the Red State thing--some of my best friends live in red states...

Glad you're here. :)
 

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Welcome Handicop! :welcome:

I think we can all relate in some way or another to feeling exposed and vulnerable. But that's part of the process. And it gets easier with time. Just keep writing and sending your stuff "out there."
 

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Hi!

Take a deep breath.
Ahhh
Now welcome to AW!!!!
:Sun: You are going to love it!
The people here are very helpful. We all (or at least most of us) feel like you do. Writing bares the soul.
So - we are all in the same boat!
Climb on in and enjoy the ride!
 
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