I'm looking for some advice about the use of a pseudonym, in particular, guidance about using them in relation to others aspects of the writer's life besides his writing per se.
As background, the reasons I use a pseudonym include:
* I'm a cross-genre fiction and non-fiction writer,
* I'm not crazy about the idea of colleagues and clients I deal with in my daytime profession knowing about my fiction which deals with certain sexual themes (although this might be a nice problem to have if and when it's published),
* I don't care much for my real last name which, combined with my first name (which I do like) is the full name of a general who was involved in a war that I (and many others) think of as criminal, yet I likely won't change my name -- if I ever do -- until my mother passes.
There are other, even more personal reasons for my use of a pseudonym and, as one may be able to see by now, I have strong feelings about this. I don't know about you, but I feel like a different person when I'm writing, or talking about writing, so much so that I'm in a different ego-state which of course I associate with my pseudonym.
So here are my specific questions I'd like help on:
1. When the writer is meeting writers and other artists, is it appropriate that he introduce himself using his pseudonym, or should he use his "real" name? If he chooses to use his pseudonym, should he add, "by the way, just so you know, that's my pseudonym"?
2. Does a different set of "rules" apply when meeting agents and publishers? Are there any set "rules"?
3. Would it look funny to use letterhead with the pseudonym on it, then in the body of a letter to an agent say, "I use a pseudonym. My real name is ...."? What about pseudonyms on business cards?
Thanks in advance for any thoughts you may have.
As background, the reasons I use a pseudonym include:
* I'm a cross-genre fiction and non-fiction writer,
* I'm not crazy about the idea of colleagues and clients I deal with in my daytime profession knowing about my fiction which deals with certain sexual themes (although this might be a nice problem to have if and when it's published),
* I don't care much for my real last name which, combined with my first name (which I do like) is the full name of a general who was involved in a war that I (and many others) think of as criminal, yet I likely won't change my name -- if I ever do -- until my mother passes.
There are other, even more personal reasons for my use of a pseudonym and, as one may be able to see by now, I have strong feelings about this. I don't know about you, but I feel like a different person when I'm writing, or talking about writing, so much so that I'm in a different ego-state which of course I associate with my pseudonym.
So here are my specific questions I'd like help on:
1. When the writer is meeting writers and other artists, is it appropriate that he introduce himself using his pseudonym, or should he use his "real" name? If he chooses to use his pseudonym, should he add, "by the way, just so you know, that's my pseudonym"?
2. Does a different set of "rules" apply when meeting agents and publishers? Are there any set "rules"?
3. Would it look funny to use letterhead with the pseudonym on it, then in the body of a letter to an agent say, "I use a pseudonym. My real name is ...."? What about pseudonyms on business cards?
Thanks in advance for any thoughts you may have.