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Hi everyone- I know there are a few of you who are following my never-ending-saga. My dad and I were just talking on MSN (yes an almost 86 year old who does instant messaging!) and he asked if I would go on "one of those book tours" if I got this book published. He said he wants to go too. Wouldn't that be something. I mean, it'd be difficult. Neither of us has the easiest time of it, but especially him. Then my mom, who was sitting next to him while we were MSN-ing, said she'd come along to cook and pray before each talk. Well, what could be better? And my husband then said he'd drive. It'd be the whole fam-damily.

Anyway- so I told my dad that I couldn't finish the book until we go over it one more time. He didn't answer, but I think the time will come sooner than later. So now I'm prepping (in my mind) to start again on this project. And though it's been nice to be away from it, the excitement is building again, and even more than before. I want to just start up again NOW, but I'm holding myself back to finish up a few other projects. Then if the book thing takes off at least i'll have a tiny bit-o-money in the bank.

Just wanted to share...again! I owe so much to you all. This has been the perfect venue to share and get advice and ideas. I can't tell you how many times it has made a difference! You all are awesome!

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Lavinia,

How wonderful to hear! Clearly, he's been thinking about it ever since he said he didn't want to think about it anymore. hehe. The best part is, that thinking has transformed from remembering a painful past to anticipating an exciting future. At 86, this is a rare gift. At any age, the waking up and going to sleep with the dreams of something wonderful around the corner is a such a delicious pleasure!

I'd missed mention that your Mom was still with you. What a great thing this is for her too. And lucky you, having them both still. I suspect all this is making the prospect of many more years more likely too. A sense of purpose, having something to look forward to is one of the underpinnings of longevity.

Thanks for this latest installment!

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Yeah- My mom sort of gets lost in this whole thing. She is the silent partner. She has prayed for him and me all the way through this. She literally gets up at 4am each morning and prays for us for two hours. She prays for anyone who asks actually. But I have an *in* with her so I didn't have to ask...he he. She just had her 78th birthday and is going strong. Honestly I hadn't thought of it that way-that he has something to look to the future for. That's great! And how true. Anyway- see ya on the road!

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Lavinia, I am late to this thread, but I am assuming your book is about your father? If so, your 86-year old Dad going on a book tour sounds perfect! I would imagine this fact alone would generate a lot of buzz for a book tour.
 

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Yes SHBueche- My father gave me letters he wrote to his folks during WWII. I've written a memoir about reading them and getting to know him in the process.

He is SO knowlegable about the technical aspects fo what he did as a code breaker. I am only an expert at my feelings during all this. My fear is that some know-it-all will ask a question and I'll look like a fool. With Dad there, he'll talk their ever-lovin' head off.

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Lavinia,
That is really cool. It's great that you and your father were able to turn what was probably a horrifying experience (living through and dealing with WWII) into something so positive for you and your family. The book tour sounds like it will be another wonderful experience for you and your family. Congratulations and happy thoughts for your endeavors.
 

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Everyone loves a happy ending.

The book is about my discovering this, reading the letters and going on a journey with my dad, one that would take us from barely knowing each other, through denial, surges of memory and severe PTSD.

Here, I believe, is the pay off for you and your dad. I am sure it would be nice to sell 100 or so thousand copies. But don't under estimate the value of what the book has already brought to you and your dad.

MY! MY! MY! is this the same person? I don't want to say "I told you so", But...

When you and your dad go on the book signing tour, let me know when you will be in New Hampshire, so I can meet you both and get my autographed copy.
 

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New Hampshire? That is a loooooong way from here. I'm thinking more, Pacific Northwest tour. Beyond that just seems downright scary. But you never know.

And ok...I'll say it...You were right...you were right...YOU WERE RIGHT! How's that?

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Franz- I'm just a few miles from the Oregon/Washington border. I love Oregon too...vacation there every summer!

I'm thinking of getting back to work on my book tomorrow. There is a room in my house I can temporarily (hey it's my house, what's a year or so without a family room?)take over. I thought it would be fun to get a US map and put a pin and the names of people who said to let them know when I'd be in that town/state. It may never happen, but it'd be fun and motivating (maybe) to look at anyway.

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