Sorry about that!
My question (as you may have already guessed from the thread title), has to do with how much is too much when it comes to "touching base" about the status of a submission (especially if a particular agent's website says to "check back any time" after a certain amount of time has past.
In other words, if the website indicates that you can email to check on the status of your submission after, say, 6 or 8 weeks have past, and you have done so (and have been told that your work is still under consideration), at that point should you just let things lie for an indefinite period of time, or contact them again? (That iis where my concern about being too much of a pest comes into play).
Oh boy -- I hope this is clear. Sorry if it is fuzzy.