Looking for buddies. Any Connecticut pb writers out there?

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Hello Everyone,

My husband was giving me another batch of "wonderful encouragement" (note heavy sarcasm here) for my late night children's writing.

He thinks it's all a waste of time. I sent my first pb ms out and one editor gave me a personal rejection with constructive comments. I went to the moon with that response. To him a rejection is a rejection. Non-writers can be so unsympathetic- ughh!!!

He also seems to think that since I don't live in NY or Cambridge or some writer's commune in Vermont, I'll never make it. I've explained that this board is like having professional writers in residence. He doesn't get it.

I was wondering if Connecticut has a lot of children's pb writers here? If you would like to say hello. I would give you an enthusiastic, Hi Ya! back. (I checked the New England SCBWI website and it doesn't look that active. Just what I can tell from the website. No offense if I'm wrong.)

And regardless where you are, thanks for all your support and comments through the long days. They really keep me going. I gain confidence in your responses to other peoples post, too. Thanks, thanks, thanks.

Betty
(Your children's writing buddy!)
 

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Most PB writers are scattered around the country. We don't live in artist communes. The idea makes me LOL. How would you write PB unless you spend lots of time with kids?

I'm afraid I'm down in Texas and not Connecticut, but consider us your online support. Feel free to vent here when you need it. My husband isn't a writer and he wants to be supportive, but he doesn't have a clue. I just smile and nod when he gives me advice and then I ignore it. :D
 

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Mine doesn't get the late night writing either. Oh he tries to be supportive, but getting him to read something constructively? hang it up.
There isn't a local critique grp for me either, I'm on the Gulf Coast. I use this board for that and just so I can talk to people who 'get' that side of me :)
Hang in there. And like S Mom said vent away :)
 

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Thanks for the kind words, bk and s-mom. It's nice to know, we're all going through the same thing regardless where we are.

Happy Writing.
 

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I'm close to CT...just over the line in Massachusetts. :)
 

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Hey Jenypher,

Glad to hear from you. Mass is closer to me than Stamford. Greetings from New England!
 

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Hey Jenypher. Welcome to AW. Glad to have another kiddie writer :D
 

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I live in CT...but don't write picture books. I'm working on a middle grade fantasy right now for a packager. The NE SCBWI is really very active. You might want to get on the mailing list -- there's a link from the NESCBWI website. I suspect that's where most of the updating on local stuff comes from. There are also some very active children's writing crit groups depending on where you are in CT (not quite so many where I am in the Easternest bit).

Have you heard of the Tassie Walden New Voices award? It's just for CT writers -- you might want to enter a picture book.

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YogaMama said:
Hello Everyone,

My husband was giving me another batch of "wonderful encouragement" (note heavy sarcasm here) for my late night children's writing.

He thinks it's all a waste of time. I sent my first pb ms out and one editor gave me a personal rejection with constructive comments. I went to the moon with that response. To him a rejection is a rejection. Non-writers can be so unsympathetic- ughh!!!

He also seems to think that since I don't live in NY or Cambridge or some writer's commune in Vermont, I'll never make it. I've explained that this board is like having professional writers in residence. He doesn't get it.

I was wondering if Connecticut has a lot of children's pb writers here? If you would like to say hello. I would give you an enthusiastic, Hi Ya! back. (I checked the New England SCBWI website and it doesn't look that active. Just what I can tell from the website. No offense if I'm wrong.)

And regardless where you are, thanks for all your support and comments through the long days. They really keep me going. I gain confidence in your responses to other peoples post, too. Thanks, thanks, thanks.

Betty
(Your children's writing buddy!)

I've ditched women SOOOO fast when they dog on my writing.

Not that I'm suggesting anything. (Yay, I's beink so sub-tle, yar :D)
 

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Y'all can borrow my husband anytime you need a little support. He's, um, a little over-enthusiastic about my writing... "Get that book published so we can live like Rowling!"
 

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The advice is all great. Thank you. I don't think my husband would want me to borrow your husband but that could be interesting? LOL. I'll look into the NE SCBWI chapter. I didn't think it was that active? Cool to know. Thanks for the tips!