Sexy kinks?

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What is a kink you think would be fun to write about? I mean BDSM and spanking are pretty good markets but what about those little kinks with loyal followings that nobody writes for?

Amputees? Smoking? Bloodfetish? What do you think it might be interesting to write?
 

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I like NawaKesdo... Japanese rope bondage. It's more than bondage because it's all about the patterns that the rope makes on skin. You make your junjin into a peice of sexual art. You don't want to just tie someone up, you have to do it artfuly. So you have to describe how many crosses, and loops and knots the ropes make as they drift across the body and whether the pattern pulls into diamonds or squares based on how many knot points you have and what color ropes you're using, and what ropes can be pulled to expose and open certain body parts... okay so I'm getting a little too detailed, but ya'll get the idea.
 

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I always found rope bondage fascinating too. Like so many things from Japan, there's such beauty in it. Though it's tied in (no pun intented) with sex, I tend to forget that and regard it as pure art. I think it's the girl scout in me. I always loved rope tying techniques. I remember I once tried looking this up at Google, but I seemed to find nothing but schoolgirl porn for some reason. I was so disapointed!

I feel like a vampire here, but I have a mild blood fetish. I'm not talking lots of blood, just some drops here and there. I partially blame anime since they always seem to have some drop dead sexy villain licking blood off of his (usually bound) enemy and/or victim, slowly and seductively.

Hopefully this is a somewhat common fetish and not like that wonky meat throwing one from Secretary.
 

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I am a bit wary of answering this...as this is not something I can really relate to anymore...though I do have more than a bit of information on the subject..

and yet I think that there is a real lack of good literature in regards to "submission" - not the BDSM ideas or such...but more involved D/s ...

Norman in his Gor books went afield there..though there is a very healthy vibrant undergound Gorean community on the net and some in real as well...and certainly a huge, healthy D/s community as well...

I think the D/s community in literature has gotten really bad press...and anytime I came across such .. it was simply canned stupid stuff...
It would be incredibly interesting to see an erotic/literary work dealing with this subject in an intelligent and open manner...

I dont know if this classifies as a "kink" but it certainly is a bona-fide lifestyle
 

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Women who are turned on by guys in hip waders who brandish 12' rods.

There is something quite sexy about a man that fly fishes (stop it! you know what I mean!). Maybe it's that whole Brad Pitt in A River Runs Through It thing. <evil grin>
 

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Aubrey said:
I feel like a vampire here, but I have a mild blood fetish. I'm not talking lots of blood, just some drops here and there. I partially blame anime since they always seem to have some drop dead sexy villain licking blood off of his (usually bound) enemy and/or victim, slowly and seductively.

Hopefully this is a somewhat common fetish and not like that wonky meat throwing one from Secretary.
At the risk of me sounding totally insane right along with you... :) I kinda like the blood thing. It's not something I've personally tried... I think the husband might go--huh?!--at me for that one (tmi, tmi, sorry!), but I certainly find the concept of it fascinating and arousing.

But then again, I think biting is great... though not new and fresh. Tons of biting vampires. ;)
 

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I think everyone has their own idea of kink, I feel it depends on your own outlook of sex, the whole concept not just bits and pieces. I find many people with many hangups think anything other than man/woman/missionary position is kinky , how dull for them. Everyone has their own turn ons , some we can share and others we dare not mention for fear of being looked at like an animal. For me, any thing sexual can be kinky, it is all in how you approach it and how open you let your mind be
 

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Aubrey said:
I feel like a vampire here, but I have a mild blood fetish. I'm not talking lots of blood, just some drops here and there. I partially blame anime since they always seem to have some drop dead sexy villain licking blood off of his (usually bound) enemy and/or victim, slowly and seductively.

Hopefully this is a somewhat common fetish and not like that wonky meat throwing one from Secretary.

Nope, I have a little thing for blood too, so you're definitely not alone. Blood and biting (but not biting hard enough to draw blood, because that's too painful even for me.)

I love watching men smoke, does that count as a smoke fetish?
 

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veinglory said:
What is a kink you think would be fun to write about? I mean BDSM and spanking are pretty good markets but what about those little kinks with loyal followings that nobody writes for?

Amputees? Smoking? Bloodfetish? What do you think it might be interesting to write?

Chastity belts. They can make any scene kinky, even if the participants are all vanilla. They also split desire and gratification. For example, suppose you could have a night of unbridalled passion with Jeniffer Lopez/Madonna/Brad Pit/George Cluny/Cher/Alsion Hannigan/Britney Spears, but only on the condition you wore a chastity belt?
 

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The cool thing about erotica is you can write about things yo uwant to do or things that are best left in the realm of fiction. Robot toy love and octopus alien kinky from all eight members-things such as these are best left to the imagination!

I'll never forget I was watching a show on the mysteries of the giant squid. This scientist started squeezing the sperm out of the mini squid to demonstrate something. My dad was like He's molesting an octopus!

And back to your regularly scheduled naughty....
 

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Damn, I just got a whole education.... just by reading one thread! Love it when that happens. LOL!
 

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Character from an audio play series I'm fond of -- "Doctor Proctor, half lesbian, half octopus." Played by a male actor who doesn't bother to try to change his voice to something more feminine...
 

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I like pregnancy to be involved somehow, preferably an unusual pregnancy like a man or hermaphrodite getting pregnant, an interspecies pregnancy, an incestuous pregnancy, or something like that. Symbiotic alien organisms can also be cool.

But even if I'm not into a kink myself, if the character in a story is into it and their thoughts and emotions are described well I'm happy to go along for the ride unless the kink is one of the few things I'm squicked by, like violence.
 

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I'm not very kinky when I write, but I have read most of the kinks out there (for research purposes of course ;) ) so if you want ideas:

bondage
spanking
playing with foods (chocolate, cream, butter, sushi...whatever, they all have their uses, ice cubes, champagne...)
toys (nipple clamps, whips, paddles, vibrators, those rolling wheels, whatever they're called, that you use for pizza and stuff, plugs, dildos, different salves, enema kit, strap ons...)
fisting (hide the knuckles *chuckles*)
breath-play (strangulation and the kind)
water sports (some people like pee in the most unexpected places)
beastiality (dogs, horses, snakes, what have yous...)
incest
double-penetration (either in the same place or one in the mouth)
voyeurism
threesomes, moresomes (orgies)
fire play (some people like a lot of pain)
candle-wax
exhibitionism
sharing with strangers, friends etc
blood-play

All right, now I'm running out of ideas, though I've still probably missed a few. Now, spend a moment feeling shocked, then go, have fun.
 

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If you spot any guys walking backwards through this thread with their fly open they're obviously trolling.........

On topic; there's a DJ in my area who is always talking about his foot fetish. Not sure if that qualifies as kinky though.