Sigh. This is another reason why I miss Ruthie's Club. They used to publish flash fiction, from time to time.
For The Girls also used to run a short-story contest (that I finaled in), but I haven't seen them run one in quite a while.
I check the erotica readers and writers association listings every once in a while (erotica-readers.com), and have found some good leads there, although I don't recall anything flash-fiction length in a long time.
ETA: Wait, I think the ERWA themselves acquire really short erotic fiction. Check out their submission page.
You might check the cleis press page, and perhaps check with some of the editors who have done anthologies there in the past. Violet Blue has acquired a couple of my stories, and Rachel Kramer Bussell usually has an anthology or two in the works. I don't know if either of them has ever worked with flash fiction, though.