I appreciate the reply. I'll try to answer but it would be helpful if you view it thru an "extreme newbie" filter. Most of what you take for granted about how this site works is totally unclear to me and accepted etiquette completely unknown.
Livetojibe, I assume you were responding to my earlier post: if there are lots of comments between yours and the one you're responding to, it makes it clearer for everyone if you quote the message you're responding to. There's a "quote" button in the bottom right corner of every post which helps you do that.
The second question was generated because I saw something somewhere on the site saying directing questions directly to a super moderator was a fine idea and someone had already told me I'd posted in the wrong spot.
Ah, I understand. Yes, AW is so big it can be confusing but if you give it a bit of time you'll soon get the hang of it. I recommend that you start a thread in the Newbies section of AW if you haven't done so already and do read the Newbies Guide, which will help you in all sorts of ways.
If you have a question about how AW works, then yes, contact a moderator: if you have a more general question, like the one you started this thread with, then you're better off staying out in the open with it. OK?
As for researching first, I did, sort of. Hard to research what you don't know.
I don't suppose anyone researches what they already know. But yes, research is hard work: that doesn't mean we can avoid it.
You'll find a lot of information, help and advice here, though, so you're in the right place.
I originally only looked to see if I gave up any rights by self publishing which as I understand it, I don't.
Well, you give up your first rights, for a start. And there are plenty of publishers who only want those first rights.
I have read enough success stories about authors starting with an eBook, having success, and then a traditional publisher picks them up. With that information, it doesn't scream to me that in general publishers will not want to have anything to do with you if you have published the book as an eBook.
Lots of those stories are hyped, exaggerated, and pretty inaccurate. And compared to the number of writers who get their trade publishers via the usual submit-and-wait route, the number who find them via self-publishing is miniscule.
There are publishers who might still be interested, but there are plenty others who won't.
My question now can be refined to this (I hope it's refined). My ebook has sold so far only 10 copies (not really unexpected). In my logical mind (I'm currently an engineer), if I un-publish it, take off Amazon, does it really matter to a publisher? And if so, why? It would seem to me no damage done; only ten people in the world looked at the book.
You can't un-publish your book. You can stop selling it on Amazon but there will still be a record of it there, there will still be records of its publication, and
it will still have been published. If you find an agent or publisher willing to take it on you will have to tell them that it has been previously published; but you can qualify that by saying that only ten people bought it.
The problem with that is that you'll be telling them, indirectly, that only ten people were interested enough in your book to buy it, which implies that it's not going to garner enough interest to make it commercially successful--which some are going to consider a big strike against your book.