Hmm. Has it changed my life? Yeah, I'd say it has. It's opened a bunch of new doors, and forced me to look at what I was doing honestly so I could grow as a writer.
Now, what does that mean? Well, it means that I had to understand how publishing
works. I had to learn how each department in a publishing house interacts to produce the book. Our role (I write with a co-author) is only one cog in the machine, and the author has to absolutely stay within the timeline given for delivery of the manuscript, for editing, for copyediting and for galley/page proof edits, in order to keep everything on track.
And, the author has to KNOW the schedule, so they'll know if something is amiss! For example, we just received the ARCs (Advance Reading Copies) of our March, 2006 release. Terrific! Wonderful! Uhm... except for one minor detail. We'd never received the galleys/page proofs. Something dropped through the cracks. But by knowing that we SHOULD have received them, we understood that we would have to use one of the ARCs for this purpose, drop everything --- and I do mean EVERYTHING on our schedule to read through the book and check for typos, missing/wrong punctuation, or even plot holes. So, yesterday and today, that's exactly what I did. There were a BUNCH of errors, because we'd made quite a few edits during the copy edit phase, and hadn't had the opportunity to check to be certain they were in there.
Long, hard, icky day. My neck hurts and my eyes burn. But worth it, because the reader will never know any of the above.
As for your other questions, let's see:
Did it make it easier to get a second manuscript accepted?
Once the publisher realized the public was BUYING the book, sure. But the first book is always a crap shoot, so merely getting
published wasn't quite enough. The publisher has to make MONEY on the book.
Did it totally stress you out?
No, but I know a lot of people that it does stress out. It's a whirlwind that takes forever. Fast and slow, and oftentimes frustrating.
Did the time it took to revise etc., totally eat up all of your free time?
No. The goal is NOT to have to revise. Every single edit should teach you something about the next book, so that by the third or fourth one, there's hardly anything left to edit. You've fixed all of your bad habits.
Does that answer your questions? Or just give you new ones to ask...
