Favourite Kind of YA Guy?

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Well, the title was gender specific but really, I'd love to know what kind of traits you love in ANY YA love-interest, male or female (though I think males have the predominance in YA).

Dark?

Edgy?

Sweet?

Violent?

Funny?

Horny?

Physically Strong/Skilled fighter?

Thinker?

Lover?

What kind of YA love-interest makes you swoon?
 

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I can't help but like a funny bad-boy. They're my Achilles heel. And guys who will fight for their women. Like knock-a-guy-out-cold-with-one punch for his girl. ;)
 

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Obviously horny is a real turn off and violence in a guy isn't really a turn on either, but I love a lot of male characters with the other traits. (And even violence has its place, depending on how he's using it)
 

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I'm sick of the aloof bad-boy in YA fiction. I would be interested in seeing some sarcastic guys. Thinkers are big for me. I also like guys who aren't afraid to fight for their beliefs, and guys who will actually talk to their LI.
 

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I have a soft spot for the sweet and funny male characters but then again, many people do.

It really depends on the certain character when figuring out which traits suit him/her best. Although, I agree with Sage, horny is a bit of a turn off for any character, really.
 

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I'm a sucker for a good "tragic hero."

You know the ones. They have a dark past, filled with unspeakable crimes commited by them (either for pleasure, or because the woman they loved ordered them to do it). They can never undo the bad that they've done. The crimes of their past have made them beyond redemption. But they do the occasional good deed that makes you think that there's a glimmer of hope for them yet. I call it a "save the cat" moment.

Think Damon Salvatore in VAMPIRE DIARIES. He's always been bad, he enjoys it, but as if you wouldn't let him nibble on you anyway! Much more interesting than weepy Stefan!

Damon's "save the cat" moment is when he saves Bonnie, and feels rather proud of himself for doing that, but sadly nobody believes that he's capable of doing a "good deed" without having a hidden agenda. However, this incident gives you a glimpse of his good side, and shows that he is capable of love and selflessness.

How could a girl NOT be attracted to that?

And yeah, Ian Somerhalder is pretty darn hot too! Lol!
 

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Love honest boys. So many boys in YA are "closed off! hiding their feelings!" fuck that shit. I love honest. I love horny, sorry girls. I love affectionate.
 

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It's not an established archetype by any means-- particularly not in YA-- but I'm in love with the concept of the gentleman librarian.

I've got a soft spot for good-natured but troubled artists too. Don't tell.
 
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Even though Im a guy, I just want to say Dangerous Guys are very less likely to fight for one woman only, and more likely to date a string of girls. And if they date one girl, it'll probably be the hotest girl in school. Just saying this, cos YA today, dangerous guys are not really dangerous. After page 5 they're more like little pussies and they're all about love and love and oh, I love you even though you're soooo normal looking and not as good looking as the cheerleader.

ANyway, female love interests for my WIP ranging from smart and beautiful to dumb and not-so-beautiful. Everyone deserves some loving.
 

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Even though Im a guy, I just want to say Dangerous Guys are very less likely to fight for one woman only, and more likely to date a string of girls. And if they date one girl, it'll probably be the hotest girl in school. Just saying this, cos YA today, dangerous guys are not really dangerous. After page 5 they're more like little pussies and they're all about love and love and oh, I love you even though you're soooo normal looking and not as good looking as the cheerleader.


I think because a lot of YA is wish fulfillment written by girls for girls, YA guys aren't written to depict how teen boys actually are, but how girls/women WISH teen boys were like. I mean there ARE probably teen guys like the ones we mostly read about, but I don't think they happen at the frequency that YA would like you to believe. Still, it's fiction and we all need wish fulfillment every once and a while. No harm in it (plus I've read some pretty disturbing male wish fulfillment when reading adult fantasy novels so...)
 

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My favorite kind of male characters--and just any characters, actually--are the intense ones, the ones who feel things strongly and take things seriously. I'm thinking Zane from Pretties here. I fucking loved him.
 

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I like the smart, funny, kind of sarcastic/snarky (but not sarcasm/snarkness overload because that shit gets boring fast), and yet super sweet and respectful toward girls type of guy.

They don't have to look like regulation hotties or anything, they just need to have at least a sprinking of these traits
 

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I think because a lot of YA is wish fulfillment written by girls for girls,
Well, maybe it shouldn't be. That's exactly why that many YA boys reading fiction that much, and instead playing video games, cos really, what are they going to read about? Edward and Jacob shirtless and chasing after Bella??? If I had a son and he chose to play video games over reading YA, man I wouldn't blame him, and I wouldn't stop him.
 

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I like a guy I would want to spend time with. Smart, funny, confident, but not cocky. Polite, but not to extremes, relaxed, dresses well, doesn't treat me like an idiot, but doesn't put me on pedestal either.

Those are the sort of guys I want to see more of in fiction.

I'm so over the dark, brooding not-very-mysterious, thinks-he's-dangerous type.
 

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Pudge from Looking For Alaska is my FAVOURITE YA male character.
 

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Well, maybe it shouldn't be. That's exactly why that many YA boys reading fiction that much, and instead playing video games, cos really, what are they going to read about? Edward and Jacob shirtless and chasing after Bella??? If I had a son and he chose to play video games over reading YA, man I wouldn't blame him, and I wouldn't stop him.

I know you probably think I'm picking on you, but I'm not. It's just that we so frequently disagree. :rolleyes:

It's obvious you hate Twilight; you mention it constantly. That's fine, and I understand your position. However, it was published YEARS ago. It's certainly not the only book available for teens to purchase, and there really is plenty of good YA to read, including books for young men. If you haven't come across any, I'd strongly urge you to read more YA. If you need recommendations, ask. I'm sure you'd get tons of great suggestions from AWers.

Males (of all ages) tend to read less fiction than females. Sure, we could always use more YA fiction geared toward males. But young men choosing not to read fiction really has nothing to do with Twilight (and actually, many young men read the Twilight series).

I guess I just really don't see any basis for your rant, and it leads me to believe you're simply reading YA that isn't suited to your tastes. Stop reading that stuff. :D
 

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Funny, The Colonel from Looking for Alaska is maybe my absolute favorite.
 

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I know you probably think I'm picking on you, but I'm not. It's just that we so frequently disagree. :rolleyes:

It's obvious you hate Twilight; you mention it constantly. That's fine, and I understand your position. However, it was published YEARS ago. It's certainly not the only book available for teens to purchase, and there really is plenty of good YA to read, including books for young men. If you haven't come across any, I'd strongly urge you to read more YA. If you need recommendations, ask. I'm sure you'd get tons of great suggestions from AWers.

Males (of all ages) tend to read less fiction than females. Sure, we could always use more YA fiction geared toward males. But young men choosing not to read fiction really has nothing to do with Twilight (and actually, many young men read the Twilight series).

I guess I just really don't see any basis for your rant, and it leads me to believe you're simply reading YA that isn't suited to your tastes. Stop reading that stuff. :D

I agree. I mean, maybe this sounds wrong of me, so forgive me if I am, but maybe the reason there is a shortage of YA fiction for males is because not many teenage males read YA fiction in the first place. Not vice versa. :Shrug:

And the type of guys portrayed in some YA fiction is because it's geared towards girls in the first place, not guys. Of course many guys aren't going to like reading it, because it's not meant for them. But I agree that there are books out there suited for guys, they just have to look for the type that suits them.
 

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I'm so over the dark, brooding not-very-mysterious, thinks-he's-dangerous type.

Lol hahaha! Are you sure? From what I hear, they're yummy!

I know you probably think I'm picking on you, but I'm not. It's just that we so frequently disagree.
Actually, I don't remember any past conversations we've had before.

It's obvious you hate Twilight; you mention it constantly. That's fine, and I understand your position. However, it was published YEARS ago. It's certainly not the only book available for teens to purchase, and there really is plenty of good YA to read, including books for young men. If you haven't come across any, I'd strongly urge you to read more YA. If you need recommendations, ask. I'm sure you'd get tons of great suggestions from AWers.
Nope. I don't hate Twilight; I just find it hilarious. I own the first three, and got the last one from my library. The only reason I used Edward and Jacob in my initial post was becos they're the poster boys of love-triangle in YA, just like Romeo and Juliet are to love stories.

I have read plenty of YA books, and most YA books are geared towards female. It's not something I'm saying out of ignorance or lack of research. When the publishing industry pimps books for YA it's usually books aimed at girls, which all sound like Twilight (one bad boy, one nice boy, both paranormal, one girl. Or, mix these attributes up). That's not to say there aren't books for young men, but everyone knows young adults gravitate towards what's popular most of the time. If Young adults don't hear about a book, or if their peers aren't excited about it, most of they won't go looking for it.

And i'm not saying this cos im looking for books for me. I'm saying this cos there are frequent articles that keep asking questions: why don't boys read? What should we do about this? And I'm saying, well, you know if more publishers and authors put out more stuff that was targetted at both sexes (harry potter, etc), and not something that would have boys thinking, "Dude, if my friends catch me reading this, they would rip on me in class," then maybe these articles wouldn't be asking those questions.

Males (of all ages) tend to read less fiction than females. Sure, we could always use more YA fiction geared toward males. But young men choosing not to read fiction really has nothing to do with Twilight (and actually, many young men read the Twilight series).

I guess I just really don't see any basis for your rant, and it leads me to believe you're simply reading YA that isn't suited to your tastes. Stop reading that stuff. :D
And why do they tend to read less fiction than females? The success of harry potter proved that men and boys are very much capable of reading the great fiction as girls and women. Video games are awesome, but books are better. If boys pick up the habit of reading early, especially in their Young adult years, when they become men they wouldn't shy away from books, as most men do today. And it would actually help the industry, to be honest. But this can only happen if more authors, new onces especially, embrace an attitude of developing stories that are not rooted to satisfy just one sex. Writing books with believable and awesome YA male characters can go a long way to doing that too. You never know.

Again, I'm not blaming Twilight for anything, and I'm not ranting. This is just my observation of YA today.
 
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Regarding boys reading-- falling behind girls in reading (both quality and comprehension) starts at a really, really young age. Of course some of it, earlier and later, is cultural and has to do with what we market and to whom, but there are (alleged but tested) biological differences.

Key quote:
New research shows that areas of the brain associated with language work harder in girls than in boys during language tasks, and that boys and girls rely on different parts of the brain when performing these tasks.
Via.

I'm not saying boys shouldn't, can't, or don't read, but for the publishing industry, it's just safer to cater to the audience that you know is buying.
 

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BREAK was pushed heavily as a boy book, and still 95% of the fan letters I get are from girls. I agree that most YAs are targeted towards girls, but it's not the only issue. The books are there, but boys still aren't picking them up. Most teenage boys are reading non-fiction or adult books, or they're not reading.
 
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