Lady? Me? I resemble that remark!
I'm about to try to be diplomatic. I know - shocking.
I understand that all religions have a set of tenets, a code of honour, a rule book, call it what you will. Saying "This is right, this is wrong," is cool with me, because...well, that's how religions work. There's good/bad, right/wrong, moral/immoral and so on. Don't like the rules? Well no-one makes you be a member of that religion. If you disagree with the clubhouse rules...leave.
Natually there are Christians who would look upon extramarital smex0rz as grossly immoral.
I have no problem with that, either.
However...despite the fact we're in the Christian forum where certain standards apply which would not in, for instance, the bordello...there's an air of judgement to certain phrases used in earlier posts.
And yet, there's a part of me which is okay with that, too, because everyone's allowed their own opinion.
Even if we disagree with it.