Etiquette Question

Thomas Scot

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I need a lesson in querying etiquette.

I have a manuscript that I submitted to a well known publisher. It got through the first reading and is waiting for a second reading. However, they have held the MS since June 2006. I query them about every six months and the submissions editor answers right away, very apologetic, stroking me for my patience, etc.

Now, I want to submit this manuscript a great agent actively seeking this particular genre. Do I send the MS to the agent and let him know that it's sitting in XYS publisher's slush pile waiting for a second read - and do I admit how long it's been sitting there - or do I respect the publisher who has the MS and stick it out.

I really need some advice here. I have a tendency to be well, etiquette-deaf sometimes. Thanks. - Thom.
 
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I would submit it to the agent without saying anything about where it's been. Over three years is taking the piss.

Email the old publisher to formally withdraw its availability, saying it's with someone new.
 

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Thom, you have been much more patient than that publisher deserves. It's downright rude of them to tie up a manuscript this long. In fact, if they came through with an acceptance at this point, I'd be worried about working with them. Would you expect them to be timely in all the other steps along the way to publication? Maya Angelou once said, "When people show you who they are, believe them." They've shown you.

That said, be polite and professional in the words you choose to withdraw the MS. You never know what the future holds and you may want to work with them someday (though based on what you said, I can't imagine why...)
 

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Submit to the agent and forget about the publisher, 3 years is far too long.
 

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What they said.
Get the queries out to agents, you do not need to mention the publisher until after an agent has read the full manuscript and then wants to talk to you.