Some Jokes Aren't Funny the Second Time...

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Mr Unstable

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My aunt Susie has multiple myeloma. She had it really bad two years ago, but she had a great recovery, and went into remission.

Then about a year ago she broke her arm. She was putting on a coat. The next week she came to visit, and I was nervous. I am always uncomfortable whenever I am around her, because she is the first person I have ever known that has had a bad disease like this. I never know how to act, or what to say to her.

I was eating buffalo wings whenever she knocked on the door, and my mother let her in.
She said, "Hey Joseph!".
I timidly responded, "Hey".
She pointed to her cast and said, "I Broke my Arm!".
I then asked her how; even though I already knew, because I didn't know how to respond.
She said, "It broke while I was putting on a coat. Can you believe that?"
I responded, "I find that hard to believe! Hasn't it been like 70 degrees lately?"
Everyone laughed.

Two months ago she broke her leg. It happened whenever she was putting on her socks. I saw her at a family reunion, and she brought her injury to my attention again. This time with a much larger audience.
"Hey Joseph"
"Hey"
"I broke my leg"
"How?"
"I was putting on my socks"
"Really? This is July, shouldn't you be wearing sandals?"

Nobody laughed.
 

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In my experience, there are a lot of environmental variables such as overall mood, time of day, effects of last few people who were talking, etc. that make or break a quip. Learn to pick up on the subtle cues. When I'm in doubt, I dial it back.
 

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you probably don't need a speech on 'common sense' from some stranger on the internet, do you?

*rereads post*

sorry,...i can't help it...

first time around you got lucky.....you diffused a bit tension in the room by deflecting tension away from the fact that your aunt has a very serious disease.

second time around you served up grim reminder that your aunt has a very serious disease that's becoming increasingly more serious.
 
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