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The MR discussion is right along what I've been reading. I will absolutely check out your book; thank you!!
For me (and I'm still trying to grasp this) that question falls again to the reaction to magic question. Is there anything odd about the way the magic is taken? Or is it considered as fantastic and shocking or not real - the way people would normally react to magic? If I'm understanding it correctly, there is a definite element of unusual reaction, or usually even non-reaction, to the magic in MR.
For more example works, I just read that both Beloved and Like Water for Chocolate are MR.