Best shows:
To, Petty and the Heartbreakers, New Haven, 1983. It was the first concert I ever went too. It was me, my friends Dawn, Lucy and Markie (a girl, short for Margaret.) Markie's brother drove us over there in his beat-to-heack screaming orange Toyota Somethingorother. Lucy had the biggest crush on the Heartbreakers' "new" bassist, Howie Epstien. Well, by the end of the show we'd wandered down from our perch way up in the nosebleed seats to one of the stair landings somewhat closer to the stage, and, as the lights came up and the band was starting to pick up and leave, I was, of course, being a 15 year old fangirl and hanging over the railing waving to Tom, who of course wasn't looking that way. Well, Lucy hollers "HEY HOWIE" at the top of her lungs - and Tom and Howie both turned around and waved back. (!)
When I heard that Howie had died a few years ago, that was the first thing I thoguht of...
The Ramones 1987, Vassar College Gym, is the other best show I've ever seen. Worst opening act on earth, though - a band called Sharkey's Machine. Man, bad does NOT begin to describe them. They got booed off the stage. The Ramones, however, ROCKED. (It also rocked when my hearing returned about three days later, but that's another story...)