Bird by Bird for inspiration ranging from the gritty to the sublime.
For basic writing instruction, go to the manual for rewriting instruction: Self-Editing for Fiction Writers by Renni Browne and Dave King. This one will teach you all the essential writing lingo, like POV, exposition, dialogue beats. Good exercises follow each chapter.
For craft, the Writers Digest Elements of Fiction "white" books remain good. My favorites are Orson Scott Card's Characters and Viewpoint and Nancy Kress's Beginnings, Middles and Ends. Very thorough, both of them.
My favorite novel writing book is long out of print, I fear. It's Christopher Derrick's The Writing of Novels (Reader's Report in England). Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant. Hunt it down if you can.
Another personal favorite, though more advanced: The Fiction Editor, the Novel and the Novelist, by Thomas McCormack. Here you'll learn some esoteric concepts that, if wrestled to the ground, will deepen your understanding of the guts of fiction, such as the prelibation and the formidable master prelibation.