Ways to make sure protagonist with disability is likeable/relatable?

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I'm finishing up my first draft of a MG book. It's about a 12 year old boy who uses a wheelchair who is learning a new sport. I want the book to appeal to kids with disabilities who might be inspired to try new sports. I also want the book to appeal to boys (and maybe girls!) who just like reading books with lots of sports and adventure action.

To that end, I have tried to make my character as much of a 'boy's boy' as possible. He likes going fast and playing video games, hangs out with his buddies, deals with school bullies, has typical pre-teen social agonies, has adventures, etc. He has an unspecified physical disability which means he cannot walk. His classmates know and mostly don't care. He is not at all fragile, and has the same types of fears and worries as other kids his age.

I am striving not to make the book a didactic morality play about the impact of disability on a kid, or a list of all the limitations or adaptations that he makes due to his disability. Rather, I am aiming for a book about how awesome kids who happen to have disabilities go about their normal awesome kid adventures, but maybe in a slightly different way than a not-disabled kid would do.

I don't want the character's disability to make the book dull. Instead, I want it to make the book thrilling! (I'm not saying disability is a dull topic, I'm just saying kids books about it often are)

In my perfect world, a kid would take away from this book not that 'people with disabilities are special,' but rather that 'people with disabilities are just like me and my friends.'

What are some dos or don'ts for achieving this effect? Any guidance or specific examples would be so helpful!


PS I know dozens of little boys with physical disabilities so I know I am getting the details right. I just want to make sure those details are interesting and easy to relate to for diverse readers.
 

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Give him some weaknesses, too. Not physical weaknesses--the chair's enough for that--but make him imperfect. Maybe he talks back or fails to help a parent who's tired after a full day, or mocks a sibling, and later feels bad about it, but is too proud or too ashamed to apologize. Very typical 12.

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Treat your protag like any other boy. Humor, a relatable outlook, normal kid problems (a mom nagging over room, interest in a girl, a mean teacher, etc) are all ways to draw the reader onto your MC's side and make them relate to him. He's a guy like any other who just happens to have a walking disability.

I know a girl born without feet and only one hand. She uses stumps on her legs and no prosethetic on her arm. No one moons over her, feels sorry for her or treats her any differently simply because she doesn't 'see' herself as handicapped. She's been brought up to believe that she can do anything else other kids can do, and participates in sports like competitive soccer. Sure, it's tougher, but she works with her limitations and feels good about what she accomplishes. There's no feeling sorry for herself because of her physical limitations. She's an amazing kid.
 

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I have been trying to write about MCs with disabilities for years and have also studied a lot of children's literature on this topic. I think the best thing is to make the disability only one characteristic of who the character is and not what defines them as a person.

I am a young adult with Asperger syndrome (autism spectrum disorder). I have difficulty with group conversation skills, interpreting body language, and some complex motor activities, but there is also a lot of non-AS related stuff I could write about myself.

For instance:

When I was 12 I won a local poetry contest and another local public speaking contest. My favorite animals were (and still are) cats and lizards. I spent hours at the frog pond catching frogs. I had an active imagination both in creative writing and playing imagination games with the neighbors. Little kids adored me, and I dreamed of being a vet when I grew up.

Basically your story is not about "a boy in a wheelchair" but a boy who is learning a new sport, loves playing video games, enjoys spending time with his friends, and also happens to be in a wheelchair.
 

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hmm...

All of those are helpful! I feel like I've given my protag the typical kid problems and typical kid activities. I think I need to throw in some typical kid flaws to really seal the deal.
My very first reader told me last night that the character seems like a realistic kid and that your average ten year old would enjoy reading about him. Once I get it cleaned up, I'll post a bit in SYW and keep my fingers crossed!
 

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It always feels good to get positive feedback from a reader. Good for you!
 

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If I may chime in here as well....
I wrote a full-length play I called "Through Ben's Eyes" about a blind boy. I sent it to a local theatre I had a connection with, but it hasn't seen a stage and it's on my back burner for now anyway....but this isn't about ME! (sorry!).
I made the elements of living with his disability just a normal side-story, but added an antagonist who just doesn't get it. Sometimes he tries to do "the right thing" and puts his foot in his mouth, other times he picks on "Ben" for his blindness much like a bully. The idea was to get the audience to see some of their own prejudices and beliefs reflected in the actions/feelings of the antag, and maybe learn a little something about themselves without being preached at. For your story, maybe include a boy who adds just enough discomfort to the setting on occasion, so that the presence of the disability is acknowledged for what it is without going over the top with it.
It's hard to write about something as an outsider, taking the risk of offending someone yet cautious of the tendancy not to afford enough attention to it. It's a delicate balance.