I'm not saying you should NEVER try to sell a book at a con. I was merely responding to one of your own statements that made it sound like there was no point in going to a con if you didn't have one to sell. All I'm saying is that there is value in cons *beyond* selling your book. Being an author is about writing, of course, but it's also about planning for the future. Selling that book can be made easier through those connections you make at cons.
At a writing con perhaps, but there are several kinds. At a 100k sci fi con for example, you absolutely are there to sell books by the pound. A writing or professional con is a different experience, and maybe you can make a connection....for all the good it does you.
Thing about 'connections,' they really have no obligation to do anything. 'Maybe' they want to help. 'Maybe' they even can. But one thing I have learned, if your business strategy depends on waiting for the phone to ring...it wont.
Haven't you noticed how writing forums and Facebook groups for authors ask you to NOT promote your books? Is that ridiculous too?
Again we're talking two different events. At a full con, with people ACTIVELY LOOKING for ways to spend money, promoting your book is absolutely the right thing to do.
If you go at a con and are constantly trying to jam your books down people's throats, you'll find yourself in the same place as an author going on forums and FB groups trying to constantly self-promote. Not a good look.
Since when is Artists Alley "not a good look?" Sorry but that's ridiculous. The ENTIRE POINT of a con is to set up a table and peddle your ware. Not only do the attendees not mind, they expect it. Why am I the only one here who realizes authors are supposed to sell books? :/
You can 'connect' and 'connect' and 'connect' and not have diddly to show for it. Connecting is merely one means to an end and isnt the final point.
The POINT of all this is selling.
Authors sell books. To whoever and wherever they can.
Do you like it when someone approaches you for ulterior motives and is being very obvious about it?
That is completely off topic. Cons dont work that way.
That's the point I was trying to make about having genuine conversations with people. It shouldn't all revolve around you and your books.
Again, I'm the only one here who realizes authors are supposed to sell...
"Genuine conversations" completely misses the point of WHY you're at the con in the first place! If you weren't trying to sell or move product then you'd be back home on your couch. Your book is paramount. Its why you're there, its your reason for showing up. "Connections" dont sell books. People giving you money does sell them.
Any moment not spent talking about you or your book is a moment wasted. This is a volume business.
I'm not even sure if your experience was with the publisher mentioned in the OP?
It was. I paid BHC for a cover and interior and they delivered. But my primary reason for posting was the question why anyone would pay money to publish a book...with my answer being as opposed to what? I had a book that Big Publishing rejected, so my choices were either drop all my dreams and die a lonely death in the street, broken and alone...or take charge and get it done myself.
Well, I chose not to give up. Who here recommends the other option?