I am introverted and was painfully shy as a child. I’ve learned to navigate the social world but it exhausts me. I married an extrovert and that works well for us. We have a lot of space in our togetherness as he goes out and does his extrovert thing and I spend a lot of time alone. I do have a need for friends and family and outside input but it is a much smaller bucket to fill than his. When we go out together he is the social one and I can relax and enjoy the supporting role.
I’m wondering if the poll is weighted towards introverts because this is an online writer’s group.
I recently went to an IWWG (International Women’s Writing Guild) convention for one day. It was filled to the brim with women who were staying for an entire week and were socializing into the wee hours of the morning after a day of sharing their work and their inner lives with other writers. Many of them said that they look forward to this convention all year.
After I attended a couple of workshop sessions that day, I could feel my inner introvert asking if it was over yet. The women were lovely and welcoming and happily having intense encounters with each other and groups of others every second they weren’t writing or sharing their work. I think that’s where the extroverted writers are hanging out. It was interesting and informative but I had to go home and recover for a few days and have no desire to fill out an application for next year.
I’m wondering if the poll is weighted towards introverts because this is an online writer’s group.
I recently went to an IWWG (International Women’s Writing Guild) convention for one day. It was filled to the brim with women who were staying for an entire week and were socializing into the wee hours of the morning after a day of sharing their work and their inner lives with other writers. Many of them said that they look forward to this convention all year.
After I attended a couple of workshop sessions that day, I could feel my inner introvert asking if it was over yet. The women were lovely and welcoming and happily having intense encounters with each other and groups of others every second they weren’t writing or sharing their work. I think that’s where the extroverted writers are hanging out. It was interesting and informative but I had to go home and recover for a few days and have no desire to fill out an application for next year.