I am sending out my personal essays to a few sites this week.
I have a full length version of one going to narratively
I have a shortened one going to NYTimes Rites
I have a different and shorter essay going to Shondaland

Should anyone be wanting to accept these pieces, I would prefer NYTimes, so should I just submit to them and wait for a response before subbing to narratively, or all at once?
This is my first time doing this. Any help greatly appreciated.