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Sat Nam! (Literally "Truth Name"—a Sikh greeting)
I noticed the thread about coping and decided to start athread with words of wisdom for trying times. Feel free to add to it.
First, understand that all things change. This too shallpass. Put things in perspective and look at the long run. The Berlin Wall isdown. Apartheid is over in South Africa. We have had a black president. Womencan and do vote. Blacks can and do vote. Some "extinct" species have beensighted. This does not mean that things can't be better or that we shouldn't workfor them to be better. It is a reminder not to despair. Things have been worse.They can get better. It may take a while, but so can publishing.
Second, if we do despair, we end the good we could do rightthere. If we despair, we also let evil trump good. Don't go there.
Don't cave into hatred either. I cringe whenever I seeprogressive people say they'll "never forgive" whoever voted forthis, that or the other. A refusal to forgive is another form of hatred, and ifyou cave into hatred, you increase the hatred in the world. If you want to endhate crimes, don't go there either. Do you really WANT to be like people youdespise?
And while we're at it, let's not harass people in the name ofstopping harassment. That one backfired, as you may have noticed.
Does any of this mean that we can't take a stand? Of coursenot. But take your stand with dignity and grace and decency towards all peopleand creatures.
Grace and dignity include avoiding jeering and baiting. As athinking and praying being, I came close to permaflouncing off this site fromall the people using "thoughts and prayers" as something like a swearword. I chose not to do that, but itdidn't entice me any further to the left than I already am. Do you really wantto destroy the good you can do by using words in a destructive way?
As for things that have helped me, there's yoga that balancesmy body and meditation that balances my mind. There's deep breathing. Inhale slowlyand let your belly expand; exhale slowly and bring it back in. There's serviceof all types and giving of all types. And yes, there's gratitude for the goodthat's always there if we look for it.
Feel free to add to this.
Blessings,
Siri Kirpal
I noticed the thread about coping and decided to start athread with words of wisdom for trying times. Feel free to add to it.
First, understand that all things change. This too shallpass. Put things in perspective and look at the long run. The Berlin Wall isdown. Apartheid is over in South Africa. We have had a black president. Womencan and do vote. Blacks can and do vote. Some "extinct" species have beensighted. This does not mean that things can't be better or that we shouldn't workfor them to be better. It is a reminder not to despair. Things have been worse.They can get better. It may take a while, but so can publishing.
Second, if we do despair, we end the good we could do rightthere. If we despair, we also let evil trump good. Don't go there.
Don't cave into hatred either. I cringe whenever I seeprogressive people say they'll "never forgive" whoever voted forthis, that or the other. A refusal to forgive is another form of hatred, and ifyou cave into hatred, you increase the hatred in the world. If you want to endhate crimes, don't go there either. Do you really WANT to be like people youdespise?
And while we're at it, let's not harass people in the name ofstopping harassment. That one backfired, as you may have noticed.
Does any of this mean that we can't take a stand? Of coursenot. But take your stand with dignity and grace and decency towards all peopleand creatures.
Grace and dignity include avoiding jeering and baiting. As athinking and praying being, I came close to permaflouncing off this site fromall the people using "thoughts and prayers" as something like a swearword. I chose not to do that, but itdidn't entice me any further to the left than I already am. Do you really wantto destroy the good you can do by using words in a destructive way?
As for things that have helped me, there's yoga that balancesmy body and meditation that balances my mind. There's deep breathing. Inhale slowlyand let your belly expand; exhale slowly and bring it back in. There's serviceof all types and giving of all types. And yes, there's gratitude for the goodthat's always there if we look for it.
Feel free to add to this.
Blessings,
Siri Kirpal