I have the sad suspicion that she meant only that your feelings were irrelevant.
Now now, I can't be paranoid--I'm pretty sure she meant me, all my filthy leftie hippie friends, and my conservative friend who was the OP. ��
My experiences in conversations, in person and online, with such people, inevitably reveal a lack of intelligent thought and reason from them. One is most often met with pseudo-macho blathering, petty name calling and insults, like dealing with a petulant, defiant child. These people most often spew hate, fear, paranoia, and insecurity, even if you try to understand their position. They cannot defend their position without hostility.
I'd say this has been one of the smaller but uglier aspects of the last couple of years for me. Sure, there were always people like that, but I had a mix of friends I was able to have intelligent conversations with. That ended with the rise of Trump. With a few exceptions, my conservative friends went off the deep end, since that's the only way to support him, and I have 0 tolerance for anyone who does.
Yep, my takeaway from this debacle, no matter how it ends: Trump has left a new road map for the next attempt. He has proven how flimsy our system was, built with complete dependence on people adhering to a set of principles based on nothing more than an ethical willingness to do so. Because the founders presumed those willing to serve under our system would somehow be doing so out of a sense of service to country and citizens. Now the crooks and grifters and Mercers and Koch's and Blackwaters can see with their own eyes how very simple it is to just ignore those principles and do whatever the hell they please. It's incredibly depressing to be witnessing.
I agree with ap, if we hope to recover our government, it's going to need a far more solid foundation. As in, Constitutional amendments solid. Not holding my breath, mind you. The Roman Empire was the old road map sitting all crumpled and folded wrong in the back of the glovebox. Someone was bound to pull it out eventually.
Yup. I wish I could feel this will all be ok, but I don't.
I'd say nothing is left because this high-powered political attorney comes off like a raving loony tune. What is there to be gained to try and engage in civil conversation and reasoned discourse with someone who vaguely threatens violence to protect their "god-given rights?" It doesn't take long to be online and learn you can't talk sense to the senseless and arguing with idiots is a complete waste of time.
My retort to "You Lefties should understand what we are willing to do to protect our rights" is "You Righties should understand what we Lefties are willing to do to protect our lives."
The rise of Trump has sparked a lot of tough-talk, fist waving and veiled threats of serious beatdowns and worse in store for anyone who doesn't get with the program, but I am not going to be intimidated by assholes who get really brave behind a keyboard. A decent society tolerates the intolerant, but right about now, I'm feeling a bit indecent.
Agreed. Leaving the conversation was the only sensible thing to do imo once she started blathering vague threats. Anything further felt like volunteering to take myself ten steps closer to the stroke I'm sure to have before this is all over.
I have to admit, I've been thinking a lot about that whole democracy/decent society tolerating the intolerant aspect, and wondering if there was any way to avoid where we are now when that's our guideline. Right wing pundits on liberal arts college campuses, fine. But picketing and harassment outside of women's health care clinics, allowing Confederate flags to be flown, statues of Confederate "heroes" in town squares, self-proclaimed nazis building websites and advertising for new members? Not saying this is the sum total of how we got where we are, but I think it's a contributing factor that bears rethinking if we're ever in a position to dig out of this flaming pile of dung.
What is good for? Absolutely nothing.
But it can be fun to reply to that outrageous "god-given guns" argument by deadpaning "So, you worship Ares...?"
lol, true. But I left the Bible/religion portion of the argument to those better versed than I am.
Oh boy.
Just read through this thread after reading about Trump's latest tweets on Comey and McCabe. My cheeks are hot. I have a headache. That persistent knot in my gut just got bigger and it's starting to twist again. What kind of country do we live in, huh? What kind of country do we want to live in?
This is uncomfortable, to say the least. And scary. Kind of hopeless-feeling and yeah, feelings do matter right now. How we feel about this tenuous position in which we have placed ourselves through anger, greed, short-sightedness, fear, apathy. . .
Democracy is a fragile construct, easily corrupted. The fact that so many voted for, and continue to support, a man like Trump says a lot about the current mindset of this country. The fact that the majority of the GOP is more interested in keeping, than doing, their jobs, speaks volumes. The idea that the man seated in the White House gets his "facts" from Fox News and his jollies from mockery, that he has no clue of the magnitude of damage he is doing or worse, that he does--
I'm of two minds right now. The first is hopeful. Young people are finding their voices. Women are raising theirs. People are voting with their conscience, voting out the status quo. With every tweet, I have to believe another group of people reached that tipping point and are ready to declare, finally, Enough is enough.
But with every new day comes a new assault on my sensibilities; a new assault on the poor and the marginalized, on our natural resources, on freedoms, ethics, tolerance for others. Everything good seems to be eroding and to top it off, there's that underlying sense of darkness encroaching and danger lurking from within this country, as well as without. Even the greatest empires have fallen. We, too, could go that route if we continue our present course, especially if we give in to apathy and complacency, or if we discard decency and honor. The question: What kind of country do we want to live in? may soon be moot.
No wonder I have a headache.
I am not feeling particularly hopeful. I don't think we can pretend to ask what kind of country we want to live in until people stop pretending this is a shock, and "this isn't us."
Or what gun would Jesus pack?
Once upon a time I had a water gun where the barrel was shaped like a dolphin...