Grats on the sentences, Lil.
I am planning on recovering from being further tormented by Skylar. I told him what a great job he did in deciding against keeping Liv as his service dog at this time. He just isn't ready for the commitment he has to make, and he came to that conclusion on his own. I did not mention that I'm out the cost of the dog and the training thus far. (Maybe I can recover some of that.) He followed up with asking me to take him to Target to buy new towels because he decided he doesn't like the ones he bought at Ikea in August. I countered with I have no money; take towels that are here in the apartment. Then I asked what the process for transferring to a different university entailed going forward. He countered with "it's none of your business."
I could write a manual on all the mistakes a parent can make...
CP, I write out of order often (in fact, I rarely write in order) and I don't worry about finding where they're supposed to go. I arrange and rearrange chapters all the time. If they don't immediately belong somewhere, I just set them aside until I find a place where I want them to fit. The beautiful thing is, there's no WRONG order, because you are the boss. Sometimes I write a scene and never use it. Happens to us all. Just set them aside and move on, I guess.
DON'T THROW THEM OUT!! Just hang on to them. You never know when you might need them or when inspiration will strike. I've had things sit for five years before I used them, and I used them in a completely different manuscript. Don't throw away your writing!
Hi, BF! Long time no make out! I mean, see. You know I really mean make out.
*shrugs* I guess you're right *eyes trash bin* hmmmm. Maybe I'll give it a second look. That's like 11k in words I threw out....
Of course I know what you really mean.
ACK! Don't do that! No throwing out words!! Words get put aside, they get re-purposed, they do NOT get trashed!
I constantly write out of order. It's amazing how scenes and chapters will eventually slot themselves where they need to go.
eta: And as Lil says, yes, sometimes even into a different MS.
Don't worry, I pulled them out. I do this alot without thinking about it. My computer trash bin is filled with word doc stories that I've been working on
My god, Beanie, when you put it that way, it makes me laugh! The non-judgmental part is pretty important and accepting the kid the way he is. There are limits. I certainly did not buy him new towels. I can only pray that his father won't either.Just to make sure we're on the same page Mrf, and i'm not sure you made an error,
if i had this conversation with Sd1 this is what she'd be thinking
( and remeber she thinks differently - it's just the way it is and it is, a very difficult task to change, and also not to be judjemental about it)
I've decided to do you a favour
thats nice
can i have a reward
what?
i'd like some new towels
i've got some old towels you can have
your kidding
no, attempts to change subject
nick off
is that the gist of it?
Don't worry, I pulled them out. I do this alot without thinking about it. My computer trash bin is filled with word doc stories that I've been working on
I constantly write out of order. It's amazing how scenes and chapters will eventually slot themselves where they need to go.
eta: And as Lil says, yes, sometimes even into a different MS.
I write and developmental edit non-fiction and it's often like that. Sometimes I'm stuck at the beginning so I start in the middle or the end.
I leave out whole scenes as I'm going, sometimes, with a
[insert heartbreaking backstory here]
or a
[make this scene less crappy later].
My wretched brain requires an orderly progression of the story. It means some of my scenes are absolute craphouse because I'm racing to get to the scene I want to write. So then I have to go and heavily revise the craphouse scenes on the second go through. It's annoying.
See, at that point, I'd prefer to just go write the damn scene I want to write. Because if I'm enthusiastic to write it, if the passion's there for that part of the story, the words come out better. I'm always scared that if I put it off till I get to it, the quality of what comes out won't be as good as if I'd written it when in that zone.
I've tried doing that before, and it's like my brain gets paralyzed and I can't write anything at all. Orderly brain is too orderly. *g*
One thing I do (that I hate) is write scenes for stories without actually writing the general outline. The story eventually gets shelved and when I return to it a year later (or ten) I can’t rememv my storyline because I DIDNT WRITE IT DOWN. Ugh. I may love the scenes I’ve got, but I have no idea where I was going with them. It’s become a constant source of frustration, so Im trying to write down the basic outline. I find it challenging.