The quote in the title alone pisses me off. I hate it when the word "rape" is used in any other way than the original definition. But I digress.
https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/parents-rage-over-sex-ed-class-that-rapes-151034433.html
I really don't understand parents. How can anyone truly believe that we just shouldn't talk about sex, and if we don't, our kids won't even think about it until they're married?
My daughter is 11. We had the sex talk when she was about 9. She asked, I told her. The discussions have evolved as she's grown. Whenever she has a question or something comes up on TV that I think is relevant, we talk about it. She's not embarrassed. I'm not embarrassed. We're open and honest with each other.
Her school has had FLE - Family Life Education - every year since she was in 3rd grade. I didn't have a problem with the way they were teaching about bodily changes and maturity and sex until this year.
During one discussion, they had the children write any question they wanted down on an index card. They read the cards aloud and answered the questions. The point was to allow the children to ask whatever they wanted anonymously. My daughter wrote down, "Do condoms help prevent disease?" We'd briefly had a discussion about condoms, but I guess it was more in relation to birth control (even though I'm pretty sure I mentioned the prevention of STDs as well).
When the teacher got to her question, she shook her head and said they weren't going to discuss that.
What???
Then DD's friends started asking her what condoms are b/c their parents haven't had the same talks with them that I have with her.
The whole thing just pisses me off - parents don't talk to their kids the way they should and schools don't discuss much other than the mechanics of it. It's like they all think, "Well, the kids shouldn't be having sex at all, so any talk about STD and pregnancy prevention is irrelevant."
FWIW - when DD told me about this incident, we did have a thorough discussion about condoms, including the fact that when she's older and dating, she should always carry some with her rather than trusting that the guy will have one with him. It's not just a male responsibility.
The comments on this article mostly surprised me. Yahoo tends to be pretty conservative, but most of the comments seem to be in support of Sex Ed being taught in school - and not just the bare minimum but all of it.
And parents...please parents talk to your kids about sex!!!! If you do it right, I promise your child will maintain his/her innocence. My daughter is one of the most guileless creatures I have ever met, despite our sex talks. She's just equipped with the right knowledge hopefully so that she makes good choices in her future.
https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/parents-rage-over-sex-ed-class-that-rapes-151034433.html
Rival factions yelling at one another amid angry pushing. Tirades about condoms, and claims of misinformation. A parent declaring that children are being force-fed course material “straight from the pits of hell."
Such has been the tenor of recent school board meetings in Omaha as board members contemplate the first update in three decades of the school district’s sex education curriculum.
A public meeting in October ended in chaos after shouting and shoving broke out between supporters and opponents of the update who had packed by the hundreds into an auditorium.
I really don't understand parents. How can anyone truly believe that we just shouldn't talk about sex, and if we don't, our kids won't even think about it until they're married?
My daughter is 11. We had the sex talk when she was about 9. She asked, I told her. The discussions have evolved as she's grown. Whenever she has a question or something comes up on TV that I think is relevant, we talk about it. She's not embarrassed. I'm not embarrassed. We're open and honest with each other.
Her school has had FLE - Family Life Education - every year since she was in 3rd grade. I didn't have a problem with the way they were teaching about bodily changes and maturity and sex until this year.
During one discussion, they had the children write any question they wanted down on an index card. They read the cards aloud and answered the questions. The point was to allow the children to ask whatever they wanted anonymously. My daughter wrote down, "Do condoms help prevent disease?" We'd briefly had a discussion about condoms, but I guess it was more in relation to birth control (even though I'm pretty sure I mentioned the prevention of STDs as well).
When the teacher got to her question, she shook her head and said they weren't going to discuss that.
What???
Then DD's friends started asking her what condoms are b/c their parents haven't had the same talks with them that I have with her.
The whole thing just pisses me off - parents don't talk to their kids the way they should and schools don't discuss much other than the mechanics of it. It's like they all think, "Well, the kids shouldn't be having sex at all, so any talk about STD and pregnancy prevention is irrelevant."
FWIW - when DD told me about this incident, we did have a thorough discussion about condoms, including the fact that when she's older and dating, she should always carry some with her rather than trusting that the guy will have one with him. It's not just a male responsibility.
The comments on this article mostly surprised me. Yahoo tends to be pretty conservative, but most of the comments seem to be in support of Sex Ed being taught in school - and not just the bare minimum but all of it.
And parents...please parents talk to your kids about sex!!!! If you do it right, I promise your child will maintain his/her innocence. My daughter is one of the most guileless creatures I have ever met, despite our sex talks. She's just equipped with the right knowledge hopefully so that she makes good choices in her future.
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