I've been agonizing over this post for quite some time. There's so much to say, but it comes down to this: As a Christian, I am sorry. Sorry for the hate. Sorry for apathy. And most of all, sorry for the smug superiority that Evangelical Christians have shown the LGBTQ community for – well – forever.
It just isn't right, and it's past time for me to say so. It's past time for Christians everywhere to say so.
My journey from a cluelessly sincere Love-The-Sinner-Hate-The-Sin bigot (let's call it as it is) to a Queer-Ally has been a long one. Mostly it happened here on the boards of AW with the gentle nudging and wholly undeserved friendship of Mac and Lisa. Either of them could have shut me down (rhetorically and literally) any time, but instead treated me with graciousness and kindness, and helped me find my way at my own speed.
That graciousness is what should characterize Evangelical Christianity, but it just doesn’t. And shame on us.
I had hopes earlier this year when the Supreme Court legalized gay marriage. Maybe Christians can begin to move past it since it's the law of the land. By and large, Christians follow the law. But the recent events with Kim Davis, the County Clerk in Kentucky, have dashed those hopes. A disturbingly large number of Christians show a distressing lack of understanding of both US law and God's law.
To my shame, I've been quietly supportive of LGBTQ rights, but I can't be quiet any longer.
So, to the LGBTQ community: I'm sorry. I'm not asking to forgive all the hurts you've been dealt by all Christians everywhere. That's not my right to ask, nor your power to grant. But forgive me – one Christian – for being silent for too long. For not showing God's love as I should. For not caring. For not speaking up.
It just isn't right, and it's past time for me to say so. It's past time for Christians everywhere to say so.
My journey from a cluelessly sincere Love-The-Sinner-Hate-The-Sin bigot (let's call it as it is) to a Queer-Ally has been a long one. Mostly it happened here on the boards of AW with the gentle nudging and wholly undeserved friendship of Mac and Lisa. Either of them could have shut me down (rhetorically and literally) any time, but instead treated me with graciousness and kindness, and helped me find my way at my own speed.
That graciousness is what should characterize Evangelical Christianity, but it just doesn’t. And shame on us.
I had hopes earlier this year when the Supreme Court legalized gay marriage. Maybe Christians can begin to move past it since it's the law of the land. By and large, Christians follow the law. But the recent events with Kim Davis, the County Clerk in Kentucky, have dashed those hopes. A disturbingly large number of Christians show a distressing lack of understanding of both US law and God's law.
To my shame, I've been quietly supportive of LGBTQ rights, but I can't be quiet any longer.
So, to the LGBTQ community: I'm sorry. I'm not asking to forgive all the hurts you've been dealt by all Christians everywhere. That's not my right to ask, nor your power to grant. But forgive me – one Christian – for being silent for too long. For not showing God's love as I should. For not caring. For not speaking up.