Fiance, husband, wife, boss--it really doesn't matter. The resources are already out there and maintained by others. If you spend all your time updating this database, you are taking time away from your writing.

It is an amazing accomplishment, but likely geared to your fiance and would likely not as useful to someone else as you might think. And, as someone else mentioned, relationships change. If you built the database for someone else, really need to get their permission, preferably in writing before broadcasting it.