Katie Elle
Banned
What exactly is your experience in this field, that you feel it's appropriate to continue telling people 'this is all' they have to do?
I follow same sex marriage issues and DOMA because I'm a married lesbian and the non-birth mother of a child by assisted insemination. Protecting everything important in my life relies on an understanding of and keeping up with law and jurisprudence as it relates to same sex couples. I follow it like a hawk.
It's very important for people in same sex relationships is to always assume their relationship will not be recognized despite marriage or civil union and make private contracts, living wills, medical powers of attorney, second parent adoptions or court findings of parenthood, etc. to protect themselves. (I think everyone in this thread has always agreed that people need to protect themselves with a properly executed will.)
However, DOMA will not affect the ability to leave property to an heir via a properly executed will. That's not a controversial or moot statement.