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Semi-rant form...
So I have this acquaintance... and he has these notions. But first let's clear a few things.
1. Despite the overly Jewish name to the left, I am PoC. (East Asian, Korean to be specific).
2. My educational system was really good apparently on teaching the basics about immigration. (Which is surprising since about half was US public school.)
3. I've traveled to other countries before... BUT I still don't pretend to know all about the country and people. (I still dislike tourist traps). Any information I ask for, I'm really humble and non-judgmental about.
So the notions are this: (White Male)
1. His educational system on immigration apparently really, really sucked. I don't just mean on what slavery was like (He's American), but I mean the coming of all immigrants.
2. He knows that I know more.
3. He thinks on that level of ignorance that PoC's should "just get over it." (Not just blacks but all of them) and then also adds things like "Lazy blacks are on welfare."
4. I point out he's just plain wrong. Systemic racism is still systemic racism and it still effects people today. (Such as the recent numbers that show that White Males are doing excellent in the job market... but everyone else is still doing poorly.)
5. He then thinks it's my job to teach him about immigration (the whole thing from before 1776...)
Arrrggghhh. On one hand, I think he's curious/a bit closed minded (can you be those at the same time?). On the other, why is it my job as a PoC to teach him anything, when he could you know, put the effort into learning it himself? He talks of White guilt, etc. *eye roll*
Is there any salvaging this? Or does anyone have you know, the great history of US immigration (Including genocide, slavery and detaining people based on ethnicity.) for the semi-deliberate ignorant white male? <--If there is such a book, I'd love to bring it to parties and smack a few people with it. "There is no more racism." was the last comment I heard at a party (Different white male). Oh really???? (I jumped on that one.)
So I have this acquaintance... and he has these notions. But first let's clear a few things.
1. Despite the overly Jewish name to the left, I am PoC. (East Asian, Korean to be specific).
2. My educational system was really good apparently on teaching the basics about immigration. (Which is surprising since about half was US public school.)
3. I've traveled to other countries before... BUT I still don't pretend to know all about the country and people. (I still dislike tourist traps). Any information I ask for, I'm really humble and non-judgmental about.
So the notions are this: (White Male)
1. His educational system on immigration apparently really, really sucked. I don't just mean on what slavery was like (He's American), but I mean the coming of all immigrants.
2. He knows that I know more.
3. He thinks on that level of ignorance that PoC's should "just get over it." (Not just blacks but all of them) and then also adds things like "Lazy blacks are on welfare."
4. I point out he's just plain wrong. Systemic racism is still systemic racism and it still effects people today. (Such as the recent numbers that show that White Males are doing excellent in the job market... but everyone else is still doing poorly.)
5. He then thinks it's my job to teach him about immigration (the whole thing from before 1776...)
Arrrggghhh. On one hand, I think he's curious/a bit closed minded (can you be those at the same time?). On the other, why is it my job as a PoC to teach him anything, when he could you know, put the effort into learning it himself? He talks of White guilt, etc. *eye roll*
Is there any salvaging this? Or does anyone have you know, the great history of US immigration (Including genocide, slavery and detaining people based on ethnicity.) for the semi-deliberate ignorant white male? <--If there is such a book, I'd love to bring it to parties and smack a few people with it. "There is no more racism." was the last comment I heard at a party (Different white male). Oh really???? (I jumped on that one.)