Actually, where I'm from, people really don't play Truth or Dare UNTIL you're about 14-15. There just aren't good enough secrets or dares that you can get out of someone until then. After that, they've at least have a crush or two for dares, sometimes even a few nasty secrets you can wriggle out of them. Although, my friends and I usually just play Q and A just because 1) we usually already know the good secrets, and 2) we can never think of good questions and/or dares. (mostly because of #1) We do come up with interesting questions for that, but not what you're looking for. We do more of the "If you could a horse, what colors would it be, and what would you name it?" kind of thing.