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Posting here to vent-hope this is okay. (no worries. no names or places will be directly named)
I wrote a piece and had it critiqued by a writing forum. It is a piece inspired by mommy wars, the role of Target in moms' lives with Aliens thrown in.
As a mixed woman who has a mixed partner, my characters are BIPOC. Period. That is how I roll. I grew up scrounging for stories that were BIPOC or even mixed and now that I am telling stories, I want to write the stories I didn't have.
I understand my piece is niche and since it is a sci-fi piece, I suspected a lot of the critiques would be from straight, non-BIPOC men and I would have to sift through the feedback with this in mind. And as with any feedback, some of it was helpful, some of it was not, but there was a particular one that completely missed the plot and point. I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but the critique insisted that my "woke" themes were problematic, especially since sci-fi/fantasy is supposed to be escapism, and "we" receive this message enough in our daily lives.
First off-I understand people escape to books and stories, however, the reality is that most stories, especially sci-fi and fantasy are reflected of real-life s**t.
Second off-as a BIPOC bi-sexual woman, I am not being "woke". I am me. And my stories do and will continue to be from a POV that others will consider "woke". But it is my everyday life. I think that is the most frustrating. The critiquer must be reading the worst stories or lives under a rock and doesn't understand what they read.
Thank you for letting me vent. If anyone wants to commiserate and post their experiences, please do.
I wrote a piece and had it critiqued by a writing forum. It is a piece inspired by mommy wars, the role of Target in moms' lives with Aliens thrown in.
As a mixed woman who has a mixed partner, my characters are BIPOC. Period. That is how I roll. I grew up scrounging for stories that were BIPOC or even mixed and now that I am telling stories, I want to write the stories I didn't have.
I understand my piece is niche and since it is a sci-fi piece, I suspected a lot of the critiques would be from straight, non-BIPOC men and I would have to sift through the feedback with this in mind. And as with any feedback, some of it was helpful, some of it was not, but there was a particular one that completely missed the plot and point. I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but the critique insisted that my "woke" themes were problematic, especially since sci-fi/fantasy is supposed to be escapism, and "we" receive this message enough in our daily lives.
First off-I understand people escape to books and stories, however, the reality is that most stories, especially sci-fi and fantasy are reflected of real-life s**t.
Second off-as a BIPOC bi-sexual woman, I am not being "woke". I am me. And my stories do and will continue to be from a POV that others will consider "woke". But it is my everyday life. I think that is the most frustrating. The critiquer must be reading the worst stories or lives under a rock and doesn't understand what they read.
Thank you for letting me vent. If anyone wants to commiserate and post their experiences, please do.