You know, a friend I reconnected with on Facebook asked me if I'd answer a few questions for a friend. I said, sure, tell her to email me.
So she did. And I think she was hoping I'd offer to either read her manuscript, or offer to suggest it to my editor(s) - neither of which I had any intention to do (and made sure she knew that). I took the time to answer her as best as I could.
I didn't even get a 'thank you for taking the time to answer my questions,' response. I never heard back from her. It's not the first time that's happened, either. I don't know how keen I'd be on answering anyone else's questions any more, selfish as that may seem. Maybe that's the wrong attitude, but when I take the time out of my schedule and someone doesn't even have the courtesy to say "thank you"... it doesn't make it something I want to keep doing.
So she did. And I think she was hoping I'd offer to either read her manuscript, or offer to suggest it to my editor(s) - neither of which I had any intention to do (and made sure she knew that). I took the time to answer her as best as I could.
I didn't even get a 'thank you for taking the time to answer my questions,' response. I never heard back from her. It's not the first time that's happened, either. I don't know how keen I'd be on answering anyone else's questions any more, selfish as that may seem. Maybe that's the wrong attitude, but when I take the time out of my schedule and someone doesn't even have the courtesy to say "thank you"... it doesn't make it something I want to keep doing.