We all have hopes and dreams of what we would like to acheive, of what and where we would like to see ourselves and our writing...but how do you get past your fears and step off the 'spectators platform' and onto that speeding train that carries us to success; that train that may either take you along for the ride, or throw you off and run you down and leave you scattered across the tracks!?
I will openly admit I have a fear of failure...and this fear often prevents me from stepping off the platform, rather I stand and watch the trains rush past and carry others to success.
So far, I have had success in the areas I have had the courage to venture into...but when it comes to stepping to the trains that I really want to ride....I usually remain frozen to the platform as I expect to be run down if I make a move.
Recetly, I submitted my first MS...although I complete this MS about a year ago...it has taken me this long to build up the courage to submit it and I only submitted it because I promised my guy I would...so I took the risk of being scattered across the tracks rather than disappoint him. However, this is not my only ms, I have several ms and short stories that I am sitting on, but no courage to send them!
I would love to submit these and see at least a few published - so I guess at this point my goal would be to be able to have the courage to submit them...to reach for the brass ring...and face the rejection (i.e. failure!)
Yet, my fears hold me back.
How do you do this?? How do you overcome the fears of rejection and failure?
I will openly admit I have a fear of failure...and this fear often prevents me from stepping off the platform, rather I stand and watch the trains rush past and carry others to success.
So far, I have had success in the areas I have had the courage to venture into...but when it comes to stepping to the trains that I really want to ride....I usually remain frozen to the platform as I expect to be run down if I make a move.
Recetly, I submitted my first MS...although I complete this MS about a year ago...it has taken me this long to build up the courage to submit it and I only submitted it because I promised my guy I would...so I took the risk of being scattered across the tracks rather than disappoint him. However, this is not my only ms, I have several ms and short stories that I am sitting on, but no courage to send them!
I would love to submit these and see at least a few published - so I guess at this point my goal would be to be able to have the courage to submit them...to reach for the brass ring...and face the rejection (i.e. failure!)
Yet, my fears hold me back.
How do you do this?? How do you overcome the fears of rejection and failure?