Like Sara, I'm not really in the mix around here. We briefly connected with a group when we first moved to Tennessee, but we just didn't fit. They were heavily ceremonial, which can be a great thing, but they were also VERY Wiccan, which we are not. So it was back to the normal solitary life for us. That's cool, though, because we aren't really joiners anyway.
In Orlando, we did have the opportunity to attend a Midsummer festival and it was really fun. We've also been to a few Pow-Wows with Native American friends in West Virginia. Those were really something amazing to be a part of. They didn't care a bit that we were the "white folks". We showed respect and they included us in a very welcoming way, even sharing their food. If you ever have a chance to go to a pow-wow, I highly recommend it. The thing that got me is that there was zero flamboyance. Just wonderful, down-to-earth, very spiritual people.