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Sorry in advance to anyone who reads this; I'm hoping I'll feel slightly better when I'm done.
Just found out last night that my baby brother's girlfriend (one of the whiniest and least stable spice-girl types I've ever had the privilege of insulting) did what we've all more or less been afraid she'd do since she had his child a year ago. She took off. They're living together but were planning on moving to separate quarters next month; she got pregnant as a way to pressure him into marriage, he dodged that bullet but was trying to support her lazy ass, and they hate each other. (Yes, I know - it took two. But she admitted she stopped using the pill without telling him, and why she did that, and - ARGH. Whatever. Water under the bridge and all.)
But Saturday night, right after I left him to head back to ME, she demanded all sorts of money for child support, insisted he move out but pay for her apartment, and told him he'd only be able to see his daughter once a week. I dunno where she got those numbers, if she's got a lawyer, or if she was just trying to scare him into agreeing, but it sounds incredibly high to me. He said hell no, they argued, and she called her uncles, who came over, beat my little brother up, and took the baby. He hasn't seen his daughter for 4 days and can't get hold of her psycho-bitch mom. Being my brother, he didn't think to call his family and ask for help until last night.
I've been on the phone with lawyers since 7 last night trying to find someone who can help him. We have no idea where my niece is, my mom is freaking out, and one of my sisters is flying out there in a day to do - I have no idea what there is to do at this point. As far as I know he's filing for custody today, but I have no idea how he's going to pay for legal help; we're going to send him what we have, but I don't know if it'll be enough.
What a fucking mess.
Okay, at least I no longer want that cigarette.
Just found out last night that my baby brother's girlfriend (one of the whiniest and least stable spice-girl types I've ever had the privilege of insulting) did what we've all more or less been afraid she'd do since she had his child a year ago. She took off. They're living together but were planning on moving to separate quarters next month; she got pregnant as a way to pressure him into marriage, he dodged that bullet but was trying to support her lazy ass, and they hate each other. (Yes, I know - it took two. But she admitted she stopped using the pill without telling him, and why she did that, and - ARGH. Whatever. Water under the bridge and all.)
But Saturday night, right after I left him to head back to ME, she demanded all sorts of money for child support, insisted he move out but pay for her apartment, and told him he'd only be able to see his daughter once a week. I dunno where she got those numbers, if she's got a lawyer, or if she was just trying to scare him into agreeing, but it sounds incredibly high to me. He said hell no, they argued, and she called her uncles, who came over, beat my little brother up, and took the baby. He hasn't seen his daughter for 4 days and can't get hold of her psycho-bitch mom. Being my brother, he didn't think to call his family and ask for help until last night.
I've been on the phone with lawyers since 7 last night trying to find someone who can help him. We have no idea where my niece is, my mom is freaking out, and one of my sisters is flying out there in a day to do - I have no idea what there is to do at this point. As far as I know he's filing for custody today, but I have no idea how he's going to pay for legal help; we're going to send him what we have, but I don't know if it'll be enough.
What a fucking mess.
Okay, at least I no longer want that cigarette.