Any suggestions on how he could subtly approach it?
Perhaps it would be better if he didn't do the I-have-something-to-tell-you thing, but she had to pry it out of him. If he's been withdrawn and she's pissed about it, wouldn't she be nitpicking at him and start a fight, just to get him to pay attention to her? then it could all come out, but not because he was ready to tell her.
As far as being cool with it, sure, in real life, that often happens. But it isn't great drama when everybody gets along! Good stories depend on conflict. So either Ginger has to have a hard time with it, wrestle with it, then come to terms with the knowledge, or else there isn't any point bringing it into the story.
Want plus obstacle equals action. She wants to have her father back, have their relationship the way it was, and his secret is in the way. So she has to take action--pry the truth out of him. But then she has this new knowledge, and their relationship will never be quite the same. (In the long run, it will be better, because he's living an honest life and will be happier. But at first, it won't be, because he's damaged her trust.)
Sorry, long-winded answer. But it's because I think you're on the track of something that you could do really, really well, and add a depth to your characters.
He patted the sofa cushion and I suddenly felt like I was in a Lifetime Original Movie staring Tori Spelling.
I think how you react depends on how you were raised. I have a gay uncle, who has had the same partner as long as I've been alive, and my mom was always involved in community theater productions, which are pretty much a magnet for Ohio gays. I've had gay friends since high school.
So when a relative of my ex-husband's came out, I was the only one who shrugged and said, "Oh, okay, that's cool. Can you pass the potatoes?" Everyone else had the horrified reaction that Shady described above.
To me, honestly, a friend coming out is about shock-worthy as a friend telling me they got a new dog.
I liked her reaction too. It had the shock there, the anger, but it showed that their relationship was also strong enough that the shock wouldn't ruin it. I get a nice Veronica Mars feel from this & the father-daughter relationship was great on that show. And there is certainly no reason why she can't smile at his jokes & show affection for her father even if tomorrow she's going to realize she's still a little upset.Can I put in my .02 about shock? It works differently for different people. Sometimes it takes days or weeks for someone to work out the fact that they are feeling something - and may even then, not know what that emotion is.
I thought her reaction was honest. And I would use this as a springboard to explore what other emotions she has about this throughout the rest of the novel.
I liked it.
I think how you react depends on how you were raised. I have a gay uncle, who has had the same partner as long as I've been alive, and my mom was always involved in community theater productions, which are pretty much a magnet for Ohio gays. I've had gay friends since high school.
So when a relative of my ex-husband's came out, I was the only one who shrugged and said, "Oh, okay, that's cool. Can you pass the potatoes?" Everyone else had the horrified reaction that Shady described above.
To me, honestly, a friend coming out is about shock-worthy as a friend telling me they got a new dog.
Okay, this is going to sound bitchy, but I feel like I'm being put on the spot, here. I have plenty of gay friends. I have plenty of gay distant relatives. And if a relative of my ex-husband came out, I'd probably be eating potatoes too.
It was different when it was my sister, and I was twelve.
Uh, oops. Certainly not my intention, Shady. I was just writing a scene and needed some writing advice.
Point taken though. Too controversial. The scene is cut in favor of something else entirely. Been a big help though, because this is definately not the kind of debate I'd want with an agent, right?