I'll try to put this dilemma to you short.
It's like this;
My Sister-In-Law, also my best friend and confidant, is a devoted Christian. Until now, as it has seemed to me, she has accepted my atheism, though with hesitation. Now things have changed. I am being corned into an impossible situation of "Chose Christ, or Get Lost.
As a hard atheist, or non-beleiver, I do not know what to to do, really. I have told her that I am willing to listen to whatever she has to say, but that I find it unlikely that she will be able to convert me. She responded by saying that she can not continue this friendship unless she can "missionary" (or whatever you wish to call it).
I love her. She means a lot to me. I wouldn't like to disappoint her, but to be honest I couldn't even begin to pretend that I believed in "The Christ" as she calls it.
Now, I have gotten the impression that eithet I convert, or I lose her friendship. To me that is being more or less confronted with an ultimatum. I'm not good as those things. Feel like I have been pushed into a corner.
No matter what I will still love her. But I am scared that she will put her belief-system between us if I don't even pretend to take hers under consideraton. I am also scared that she will influence her husband, MY Hubby's brother, to distance himself from us.
What would YOU do???
It's like this;
My Sister-In-Law, also my best friend and confidant, is a devoted Christian. Until now, as it has seemed to me, she has accepted my atheism, though with hesitation. Now things have changed. I am being corned into an impossible situation of "Chose Christ, or Get Lost.
As a hard atheist, or non-beleiver, I do not know what to to do, really. I have told her that I am willing to listen to whatever she has to say, but that I find it unlikely that she will be able to convert me. She responded by saying that she can not continue this friendship unless she can "missionary" (or whatever you wish to call it).
I love her. She means a lot to me. I wouldn't like to disappoint her, but to be honest I couldn't even begin to pretend that I believed in "The Christ" as she calls it.
Now, I have gotten the impression that eithet I convert, or I lose her friendship. To me that is being more or less confronted with an ultimatum. I'm not good as those things. Feel like I have been pushed into a corner.
No matter what I will still love her. But I am scared that she will put her belief-system between us if I don't even pretend to take hers under consideraton. I am also scared that she will influence her husband, MY Hubby's brother, to distance himself from us.
What would YOU do???