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Does anyone find that people who aren't writers, who don't need to devote time and intense self-discipline to get something written and pitched, who don't need to research piles of agents - that these people don't understand when you need to be a little selfish with your time?
I'm embroiled in such controversy right now. I've been to the girl's engagement party and I'm going to her wedding but her showers (yeah, she's got two wedding showers coming up) are at the worst time for me. I'm just finishing the book i've worked on for 2 years and have to gear up to research agents and I work full time and only have Saturdays and Sundays to do all of this (and, oh yeah, clean the house, do the gardening, etc.) - and people are mad at me because I'm not attending either shower (both are out of state). Of course, I bought her a gift and a card. Her intended is the son of my husband's best friend so I guess that means I should have, what, given up my life's dream with so little time left?? (I really need to catch the fall market in terms of pitching this book - I don't want to wait until January).
Has anyone had anything similar happen?
I'm embroiled in such controversy right now. I've been to the girl's engagement party and I'm going to her wedding but her showers (yeah, she's got two wedding showers coming up) are at the worst time for me. I'm just finishing the book i've worked on for 2 years and have to gear up to research agents and I work full time and only have Saturdays and Sundays to do all of this (and, oh yeah, clean the house, do the gardening, etc.) - and people are mad at me because I'm not attending either shower (both are out of state). Of course, I bought her a gift and a card. Her intended is the son of my husband's best friend so I guess that means I should have, what, given up my life's dream with so little time left?? (I really need to catch the fall market in terms of pitching this book - I don't want to wait until January).
Has anyone had anything similar happen?