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I recently posted a thread in here that took a lot of heat. Many misunderstood my intent. I apologize for my part in this.
The point I would like to make is about PA authors and ex-PA authors. Our publishing experience is a little different...enough said on that. What bothers me is the authors who resort to pointing fingers, making digs, calling names etc. Much of this negativity is directed at PA authors. Some (not all) of the authors who are doing these things are ex-PA authors.
Authors who have themselves been banned from the PAMB, authors who have stood abuse, authors who have also endured this publishing experience. Yet, these are the same ones inflicting personal attacks to those who also suffer. What is with that? Is it a defense mechanism to suck up to the PA "bashers" so they themselves do not suffer?
Whatever the case may be, it is wrong. If you want to "help" authors refrain from negativity and give them something positive to reach for. You may say "Oh they have big egos" or "they don't want to be helped." I don't believe that to be true in all cases. Many people want to come to AW to do better for themselves. Give them that chance before you start attacking. Simply put, treat others as you would wish to be treated.
Some say PA authors can't write. Have you read their book? It seems as if some are putting down PA's author's books. You have no right to judge if you haven't even read the book in question.
It takes much less energy to help than to hurt.
I'm not writing this for my benefit. I can do well enough on my own.
I did not post it to be picked apart piece by piece, nor did I post it to be vindictive. You either understand it or you don't. There is no sense to make it into something it isn't.
This posting does not pertain to the majority.
Thank you~~~
The point I would like to make is about PA authors and ex-PA authors. Our publishing experience is a little different...enough said on that. What bothers me is the authors who resort to pointing fingers, making digs, calling names etc. Much of this negativity is directed at PA authors. Some (not all) of the authors who are doing these things are ex-PA authors.
Authors who have themselves been banned from the PAMB, authors who have stood abuse, authors who have also endured this publishing experience. Yet, these are the same ones inflicting personal attacks to those who also suffer. What is with that? Is it a defense mechanism to suck up to the PA "bashers" so they themselves do not suffer?
Whatever the case may be, it is wrong. If you want to "help" authors refrain from negativity and give them something positive to reach for. You may say "Oh they have big egos" or "they don't want to be helped." I don't believe that to be true in all cases. Many people want to come to AW to do better for themselves. Give them that chance before you start attacking. Simply put, treat others as you would wish to be treated.
Some say PA authors can't write. Have you read their book? It seems as if some are putting down PA's author's books. You have no right to judge if you haven't even read the book in question.
It takes much less energy to help than to hurt.
I'm not writing this for my benefit. I can do well enough on my own.
I did not post it to be picked apart piece by piece, nor did I post it to be vindictive. You either understand it or you don't. There is no sense to make it into something it isn't.
This posting does not pertain to the majority.
Thank you~~~