i think that's a good point, mm.
fantasy names like llowen'yl or some crap gets tendious real fast. or like old irish names which almost seem to sound nothing like they're spelled. i never appreciated having to wrap my brain around a name every time i see it. to me, if it doesn't sound very closely to the way it's written, i don't like it. there are far too many names out there to not at least pick a good one if you can't think up one on your own.
kind of a side story: my wife and i were watching 'queen of the damned' (she liked that dumb movie-- blech) and out of nowhere she says (which is unusual because normally she has to ask permission before uttering a single word, else i won't less let her do the dishes and she'll not get any lovin' that night), 'you know, i read all the books and i always thought his name was pronounced less-tot, not less-tat.' so you see, people are crazy. that's pretty much my point here, that people will read whatever name they want to in it despite your intentions and lacking a pronounciation key.
myself, i've resorted to the phone book, sure. i've downloaded lots of name lists from all sorts of eras. there are a few names i adore, like rachel and lynne. i've stolen names, like zildijan, from the cymbol maker of rather the same name. names are difficult for me, though. like mm says, i stay away from too many really common names and i avoid almost at all cost names that begin with the same letter. that's just me, but as far as generic advice from a hack goes, i think it's not too bad. i pilfer names from old stories. i steal them from history. i'll derive 'falla' from 'fallacy' for a fantasy story. sometimes i give them a dull name and use their nickname. personally, i know a bump, biscuit, cutter, mario, and tree, just to name a few. (i've actually known two 'biscuits.' odd, that, no?) i mention that because i think nicknames are often overlooked.
my name is ryan, and i've yet to use it as a character name, lol. i don't really know why. it's a good name. not weird, just a little unusual. i wonder if any author has used their own name? is it bad luck?
a pet peeve of mine is using a girl's name for a guy. why an author would do this is beyond me.