Wedding gift
A friend of mine -- not a close friend, mind you -- apologized that she couldn't come to my wedding because of the cost. But she gave me a wedding gift -- again apologizing, because it was handmade --
She had, in her best calligraphy, written the Chinese character for love (she is Chinese). She had stamped it with her "chop" (name), and then put it in a simple frame. All very simple -- black ink, white paper, red "chop" and thin black frame.
Simple, and beautiful. Beautiful because she had taken the time to think about the me, the marriage, the gift, and then taken the time to do it (perfectly -- I am sure the first draft wasn't the end of it).
The marriage, alas, is over -- but my appreciation for that particular gift lives on.