This probably belongs in the "Interviews and Experts" section, because I'm using it to create a character for a story, but I'm posting it in OP because...well...I am.
That, and I figure it could make for some interesting spinoffs and tangents that only belong in OP.
I was thinking that a white jacket with a red floral pattern would look nice with my new dress.
I'm curious about people's insights to the single life...for those who are single and those no longer single...
I'm single now. I wasn't single before. I believe Kristie and I have the same 'born again single' day...but I digress. What I like about being single is making my own decisions and running my own life without having to answer to anyone. I really disliked being considered too stupid to even decide what brand of TP to buy. What I liked about not being single was, well the snuggle aspect. I like the way men smell. (Usually)
What were your greatest fears when it came to pursuing someone you were interested in?
My greatest fear in pursuing someone I was interested in was 'pursuing someone I was interested in'. But maybe I wasn't ready then. Too late now. Hope there'll be a next time
Did you prefer to pursue, or be pursued? Did it ever feel like no one was pursuing YOU, and if so, how did that affect your self-image?
I think I prefer to be pursued. Men always seem to be flirting with me, either that or they're all nice friendly sorts. It never affected my self image. I have a terrible self image. Well I did. I've been working on it. The new dress helped. Did I tell you it's red?
Do you have any regrets with regard to dating? Someone you wish you'd gone after, but didn't -- or someone you went after, but wish you didn't?
Oh yes. Yes. There was a nice guy in HS. Not the most attractive, but very nice and very smart. I dated his friend instead becaue the friend was the cutest guy in HS. Lousey lay. The friend went on to be a banker. A very well to do banker. Another guy. College. OMG what a HUNK!!
Now I know his ex-wife. The 'hunk' was 'junk'.
Another real nice guy. Tall, long hair like a rock star. Very very good friend. Dated three times. Then his mother set him up with someone. Then I met my ex. Then he met someone..(after telling me to not marry my ex) Now I have an ex, but he's not going to end his relationship because of his kids, so I guess we'll be friends til we're 95. Friendship might just be the more valuable comodity in the long run. (But why does he have to still be attractive???)
All tangents and spinoffs welcome.
Spinoffs? Ok. Well...here goes:
Tangent Jacobsen always wanted to be a rock star. But her voice sounded like toads and cats being tortured in a squeeky rusty blender.
But this week on 'Extreme Makeover: American Idol Edition' you'll watch as Tangent makes a 'Deal or no Deal' in an effort to win a million dollars to have her vocal cords replaced so she'll have her chance to be one of a dozen runway models to take the plunge off of 'Survivor' Island and risk becoming 'Lost' while swimming after Simon's yacht while singing 'Stardust'.
Tune in tonite at 9, folks.